What would you say to your mate if this had happend to them?
It goes like this Your mate starts dateing someone and she falls pregnant with that persons baby but for some reason he starts pushing her away and shes lost without him, and he doesnt want to talk to her any more she carnt say what she wants to him cause he dusnt listen what should she do?
2007-09-12 01:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Advertise the fact that he is to be the father of her child Im sure she will get a reaction~~
2007-09-12 01:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me and I thought the best thing to do for myself and the baby and the best thing to do to him was go on and live my life and try to be as happy as possible. It is VERY difficult but for me it has worked out. I have finished school and I am engaged to a wonderful man now. My daughter is very happy. I never want her to see me miserable, especially not over a guy. I decided that I didn't want such an inconsiderate and weak man in my life or my daughter's so it was for the best. In the end, wanting something more for my daughter and myself has been a benefit because we have more in our lives. Good luck!
2007-09-12 08:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That poor girl. She has no choice. She needs to let him go. If he wants to be free there is nothing she can do to stop him. Next time, she needs to know her man really, really well before she does anything with him that might tie her to him for life, which is what this girl is now that she's having his baby. Just let him go and make sure he pays for the child as the courts order him to.
2007-09-12 08:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sassie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly.. you need to make sure you are there to support your friend, because he isnt.. and she should start looking at how to be a single mum.. because it seems like he doesn't want to help.. the same thing happened to a friend of mine.. and she is a great mum with a great support network... if she gives him time, he might come around.. because it's possible he's freaked out about being a dad... let him think it over.. because it's likely he'll want to work things out once he faces fact that he's going to be a dad.. and if not.. then she needs to know that she wont be alone, there are other people to support her, friends and family
2007-09-12 08:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cinderelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously not interested and terrified at the thought of being responsible for a child. If he loved her he would at the very least listen to her! I would tell her to get over him, she's too good for him anyway and to look forward to being a Mum.
2007-09-12 08:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by clare jo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. She should not be having premarital sex first and this would not be happening. However it has.
My recommendation is that she seek prenatal care. My next recommendation is that she seek legal advice on a paternity test so the father takes financial responsibility for this child. It takes two. A difficult road ahead perhaps, a good example of being accountable for one's action.
Good Luck.
2007-09-12 08:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get professional help. And if he doesn't want to own up to his responsibility of making a baby then he should be made to suffer until he sees the light of his way.
2007-09-12 09:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No comments!!! J/K well she shld just forget dude count her blessings and hope he is willin to pay child support. well all except for the last prt. Wat she can do is push him away, right now he nows she needs him, so make him realize that she does not, he'll come runnin!!!
2007-09-12 08:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by KaOz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to help yourself --- this dragging on far too long --- i realise there are no easy answers --- but please find a way for peace of mind .
2007-09-13 08:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by bill g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one to answer...
2007-09-12 08:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly RIch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋