i told him i loved him, he stopped talking and now ignores me! my friends are beginning to speculate me now, and they know something is up! he's really nice so i told him i love you and he ignores me all the time, even when i put my hand up in class he gets the assistant to come ove and help, he doesnt do this to any one else.
2007-09-12 00:03:09 · 9 answers · asked by Sanskia 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
it's allmosst unbearable being in the same roomm as him..
&+wen i try 2 mke im laugh he raises his eyebrows, looks at the ground nd shakes his headat me.
hes making me feel bad nd i stayed off school 2day cos of it.
2007-09-12 00:08:11 · update #1
he ussed 2 be dead nice 2 me tough. he used to really help me out and make me laugh and stuff.
2007-09-12 00:16:59 · update #2
your teacher feels he has to do this. You have made him very uncomfortable and put him in an extremely risky position. He has probably told his superiors all about it, because the last thing he needs is to encourage your infatuation and get caught in a compromising position. Your teacher has to shun you for his own sake.
Try to move on. Find something interesting to get involved with until the end of your school year when you can move on. Is it possible to transfer out of his class?
Don't continue to put his whole life at risk. Get over him as quickly as you can. This can not work while you are a student...
Leave the poor man alone!
2007-09-12 00:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What were you thinking?
Teachers have to be extremely carefull around students. Should a teacher even be suspected of any emotional involvement with a minor, its good-bye to teaching and his reputation/career.
Its normal for girls to sometimes have a crush on their teacher, but keep it to yourself. You crossed the boundary.
I agree that you should see school counsellor, who may feel it necessary to approach the teacher to work this out.
You are not focusing on education and being obsessed with this man. Not a good thing.
Don't do this ever again.
2007-09-12 05:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that your teacher is trying to help you by staying away from you. You are not in love with your teacher; you are infatuated by him. He knows "out of sight, out of mind." Avoiding you will also protect both of you from any possible accusations of having an inappropriate teacher-student relationship. Maybe you could talk to the teacher about it and say that you've noticed that it seems he's avoiding you.
2007-09-14 06:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you should not have done this. Second, your teacher doesn't know what to think of you and to protect himself from 'problems' [like loosing his job, which you & he don't want! ] it is best that he has asked someone else to assist you.
The best advise is to speak with a school counselor and tell them what has happened. Yes it is embarrasing, but you do not want to have more of this problem in your class, with your friends and yourself.
The counselor will understand what you say and help you to decide the best way to resolve your problem. Best of luck!
2007-09-12 00:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by caves51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him in the way he things? if not you have to find some way to explain that you him like your pet goldfish or in the same way you might love a good film. With the current attitude of parents he probably fears loosing his job and more, if you explain the context of your remark (possibly in a letter) he will most likely understand.
2007-09-12 01:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Erebus 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course you did a stupid thing. Now go to him and apologise. Say that it was stupid of you.. or else cook up some story that you wee playing truth and dare..very few chances of this working but atleast it could save your neck.
Remember your grades are in his hands.
2007-09-12 00:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Angelic Scars 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
teacher is teacher . student is student .u must learn from this word. he not ignoring u but he scare u will be fall in love with him forever. it's something strange relation will be happen between u and him. he dont want be happen actually. because u just his student and he just yr teacher..he also have big responsibble with all of his student in yr school. so he have big commitment with his carier. u must understand that..! just be friend only ok. just said sorry to him . between u and him will be better. and u will happy to continue yr studies with him. i means as teacher and as student only. please wake up ok.good luck.
2007-09-12 00:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by cctt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to himafter class and say hey you know I was joking your like the most ausome teacher on the planet
2007-09-12 07:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is probably afraid someone might think he is having a relationship with you.
tell him you just meant it as a compliment because he is nice, not literally.
2007-09-12 00:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Indiana Jones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋