like right now I am inundated with continual problems and getting rejection and everyone is being critical, rejecting, and very mean..there is no support..I am feeling lack of love, concern, and respect from recently deceased mom, all my siblings, my sons, the neighbors are bring inconsiderate and starting vicious untrue rumors, and acquaintenances are not caring much at all that I am suffering.
I am a pretty nice person having been told by hundreds I am nice, sweet,. kindhearted with a heart of gold. Are these things punishments from god for some reason..or is he wanting me to only turn to Him..it is causing me to hate people as they have been very mean and selfish lately and everyone keeps yelling at me..I am feeling like life is not worth it but I keep on living,,how can I have joy and happiness in the midst of so many problems..please advise me how to handle this and rise above it and tell me are times like these common?
2007-09-11 22:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by janie 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You are loved, you are my sister in Christ and you are loved. I have had these same thoughts...feelings. I have been where you are. I thought I was doing everything right, but I wasnt...you see I was still trying to take charge and fix things in my life. God wants us to let go and turn it over to him. This takes extreme Faith. Say a prayer and release your problems to God, take action where you feel he is guiding you but know that He is in control. Love is constantly yours. No one loves us like the Father.
2007-09-11 23:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing is for sure…God would never punish people just to gain followers. Maybe God is giving you an opportunity to rise above this difficult situation and discover your hidden power to change things around.
As far as people’s inconsideration, I’m sorry to say but get use to it. They have their own problems to deal with.
We live in difficult times…lack of love and care for others derive from our inadequacy to love our selves.
Good people are the ones that feel the effects of the social disintegration the most.
A word of wisdom… do not let other people’s lack of love and understanding deprive you of your kindness and affection for others. Resist the impulse to ‘retaliate’, preserve the goodness within and you’ll win the day…
2007-09-11 23:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by MARY B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way lately. In fact, it seems to flow over into every aspect of my life. However, I feel myself turning to God more and more. I feel like I am being tested (not as bad as Job). I feel like God is allowing our enemy into my life, but they have to obey His limitations. The enemy is thinking that this is an opportunity to get me back, but God knows that He will never let me go (as promised) and even though my sin upsets Him (I feel hatred towards people too at times) that He is happy that I continue to turn to Him during these times.
Spend some time in prayer daily. Meditating on God's promises. Talk to other Christians. Ask for prayer. You don't have to tell someone everything. Just ask them to keep you in prayer for a while. This too will pass.
2007-09-11 23:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by ScottyJae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are times in your life where thing do seem to overwhelm you. Look to yourself - assess your priorities at this stage in your life. You sound as if you have family commitments, but you still need some time for you. Also, look to your family. They may not realise just how you're feeling and may just need reminding that you need comfort from them at times.
I had a year like this where everything threatened to overwhelm me. In the same year, my wife and I had our first child but lost my grandfather, my wife's sister and her grandmother. Coping with a young baby at this time was extremely difficult. All the more so because I also had to be able to support my wife when her sister was killed.
2007-09-11 23:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Valarian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry you're confronted with lots at a susceptible time on your existence. you're interior the ability of grieving and emotionally you're actually not as stable as you frequently are. you would be greater stricken by human beings's derogatory comments and something exterior the norm. Then perfect element to do is to attempt and sidestep the poisonous human beings. close them off like a faucet. assemble your loved ones at the same time and refer to them. enable them to appreciate that at this unhappy time in existence you all would desire to be supportive of one yet another, no longer demanding, and rally at the same time, that's what mom would choose. positioned out photos of your mom and enable all of us tell a tale approximately her and how she impacted their existence. enable them to work out the human, susceptible component of you, this is advantageous. whilst they do they might have greater compassion and be greater supportive. supply a collection hug. As you artwork interior the direction of the grieving technique it does improve into greater handy to regulate. whenever you are able to decide for a walk on my own carry out a little long, sluggish, deep breaths. Ask God for potential to regulate and have faith by using faith issues will strengthen. perfect of excellent fortune to you.
2016-11-10 05:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the lord maybe wants you to show him you love him thru the hurts pains rejections and loss of your mother. He went thru all that too. (Except loss of his mom, ) but he did have to see his mom suffer from seeing her holy son suffer an unjust death and beating. suffering brings out the best or the worst in us, let it bring out the best in you, we have all been there before. your not alone.
2007-09-18 13:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a period of great adversity.
Do not follow negative thoughts.
Try and find something or someone who can make you laugh, even for awhile.
Take a hot bath.
Get good sleep.
Be patient, it should pass.
2007-09-18 18:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by smkeller 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's you.
2007-09-11 23:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Beavis Christ AM 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋