That is to say, have you felt like you were so different from the world that finding a place in it seems virtually impossible. Especially if the feeling was so strong you've felt a need to live in another land, leave your current career, or simply have experienced extreme difficulty in figuring out what you want to do with your life.
If you can relate to this, or have any advise, PLEASE respond... I have a new friend that seems to feel this way.
I am genuinely worried about her and I think she needs to know she's not alone and maybe could use some fresh perspectives.
2007-09-11 17:38:55 · 5 answers · asked by WOP 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
i CAN’T SAY AS i HAVE EVER FELT DIFFERENT FROM THE REST OF THE wOrLd. aCTUALLY, ALL THINGS CONSIDERED, i THINK i’M PRETTY NoRmAL. yUP, PRETTY MUCH RUN-O-THE-MILL… MAY----BE EVEN A LITTLE MuNdAnE. sO… nO, i CANNOT relate.
mY ADVISE, hoWever, WOULD BE TO jUST be YOURSELF, HOWEVER WWEEIIRRDD THAT MAY sEem TO OTHERS. bELIEVE IT OR NOT, THE WorLD WILL BenD A little TO YOUR WILL AS wELL…
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2007-09-12 06:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't a day that goes by that don't feel different and out of place in the world, sometimes that makes me feel good and other times bad. it isn't a fun feeling to think that you are the only person that has any clue of what you think or feel. i think it is good though cuz it makes me realize that nobody else on earth is like me and i don't have to be what someone else wants me to be because variety is amazing. imagine a world with only one kind of everything, one food, one drink, one mind, one heart. there might as well be no life at all. it is fun to have difference because that is what makes people fun to be with. if you are ok to who you are, not others, then you can be happy. i did something last week that i had never done before and it showed part of who i am. i was scared of what other people would think, it wasn't bad i was just nervous, and when i went through with it it was like being a bird let free from a cage. if they feel out of place that is fine as long as they can think of some good in being different.
2007-09-12 01:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by frogman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for your Friend people say you ll get over it do something fun but how can you have fun when theres nothing.
Your Friend will learn to over come this bye them selves and find there own path in life.
Or learn to cope with this unsatesfaction in there lives.
The last thing your Friend would want is to be reminded of how depressed/sad they look .
The best advice i can give is to volunteer at an nursing home it will give alot of perspective and give them alot of satisfaction .
And don't forget to tell your Friend
(If you ever want a ear to talk to I'm (you) here for you)
2007-09-12 01:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't have much advice except to keep on, one day at a time, and be true to yourself. she will find eventually that there are in fact other people like her, even if the world is not, and you can still create your own island of support (perhaps you are already one of the friends on that island).
2007-09-12 00:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by KJC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was. then i found people just as crazy as me.
i feel much better now =]
2007-09-12 00:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Susan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋