when I don't want to do anything anymore..i have no enthusiasm for anything...i don't want to work...don't want to go out or meet new people...i think i'm just waiting for the end of my time....but i truly want to love and be loved....it's like my last wish. Is that still possible in my condition?
sorry i really don't know where to post this Q.
2007-09-11 16:08:34 · 25 answers · asked by ♥Slide♥ 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
@magnetic_azimuth
find someone different who will cherish you and honor and be faithful to you.?
good point...now if only it were that easy to teach,train,and control your heart....*sigh
2007-09-12 13:59:40 · update #1
Yes. Many people meet people just right for them on the internet. Just be careful of what you believe. Honestly, I've met better people online than in bars and clubs. You can pick and choose what you have in common online. I suggest a dating website. Some are free, match.com is cool, webdate, matchmaker I think too.
2007-09-11 16:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're depressed. You'll probably hear that from a lot of answerers but it's true. Medication helps. If you do not want or can not afford to get a prescription, natural alternatives such as sAM-e, 5HTP, and DHEA are a good starting point. I take or have taken all of them and they work wonders. I have been in that place many times, where I'm just waiting to die, and hoping it will be sooner rather than later. Wanting someone to love proves that you are not beyond hope, that there is part of you that seeks companionship and life beyond the world you have created. Everyone has the right to hope, to dream, to love. You are not an exception. You should try one of the supplements I've stated above as well as a vitamin B complex, ginseng, ginko, and a regular multi-vitamin. The combination should be enough to kick-start your 'enthusiasm' and the rest of your life should follow suit. Hope this helped.
2007-09-11 23:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by tremonster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - not in your condition. You are very depressed. The depression could be warranted, or could be caused from a medical issue. Either way please get medical help.
The reason I said "No" is because, no one enjoys being around a negative person. Also negative people withdraw, so how are you going to meet anyone? Depressed people focus on the negative side of everything. Would you love someone like that?
When you are happy again, love will find you!
I struggled with depression for years (caused by hypothyroid) and the doctors helped me. I can't tell you how good it felt to be happy and laugh again. And you can too! I took anti-depressants for 1-1/2 years. Today I'm not on any medicine and I am still happy! Good luck and God bless.
2007-09-11 23:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Braveharht 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay I'm not sure if your a man or a women but it doesn't matter first let me say of course it's wonderful that you want to love someone and to be loved by someone. Most of us have been there. Second let me say maybe you are suffering from depression have you seen a doctor. If this is a change for you to not want ot do anything anymore that is a huge sign of depression and that can be helped. You should go see your primary care physician. My momma suffered from depression and she is doing so much better now that she is getting help. You shouldn't worry about finding love until you get yourself feeling better love will come in it's own time dedicate some time to yourself pamper yourself your worth it! God Bless You my friend.
2007-09-11 23:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by LILBITOFKY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't go through anything like what your saying, but when I come back from deployment i'm always a bit down and don't feel like doing anything. So I at least understand the feelings.
I don't go seek med help, drugs only mask a problem. I ride it out.
as for finding a true love, if you keep doing what you have done in the past to find someone, and you keep being attracted to the same type of guys, you will keep suffering the same thing.
find someone different who will cherish you and honor and be faithful to you.
tall order, but look forsomeone that you have not looked for before.
2007-09-11 23:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by magnetic_azimuth 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound really depressed, and I would hope you call someone who will help you through it.
My answer is, the problem you are having is not what you think, which is not being loved by others. Somewhere along the line, you did not internalize the truth that you are lovable. You don't love yourself. You must see how wonderful and lovable you are before you can love anyone else, or anyone can love you.
Go out and help someone who is in more need of love than you are right now.
Mother Teresa once told a devotee of hers when he asked what he could do for her, to go into the streets in the early morning hours, find someone who thinks he is alone, and convince him he is not.
You are not alone, my friend.
2007-09-11 23:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by NRPeace 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so but unless your going try and pick up dates at a mental institution you might want to ease up a bit on yourself. I too have no desire to work and frankly the new people I've met recently have left me with little desire to continue the search. But that's just on a bad day. Chill out my friend, if your still breathing your still in the game. And really for a last wish you couldn't have picked a better one. That alone should fill you with hope. Good luck with your wish...but about the work thing...call that one a wash.
2007-09-11 23:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by ringo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God is Love - Book of James. Jesus is The truth. 3 pages of daily christian ways.
True Love is available but it only exists
in Scriptures. 1st John - 3 pages of basic ways of a follower of true love.
how long to read 6 pages? how long you been looking. in all the wrong places?
read the 6 pages and do not lean on your own understanding. or conform to the patterns of this world but rather renew your mind so you will know God's good and perfect will for you. Romans12:2 and 2cor10:5 conform your thoughts to Scripture or reject your thought. follow the leader. Word became flesh and flesh becomes word when you are minded in it. Then whatever you ask the Father in My Name He will do for you.
It is in your nature to want a man to love.
Try Church!
2007-09-11 23:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by belize777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are depressed. I think the first step would be to get help for that. There is nothing wrong with seeking help when you need it. We all have periods in our lives when we feel that way. Remember that there is always hope for tomorrow and what it will bring and to love and be loved is something I think we all wish for.
2007-09-11 23:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For our dreams to be realized we need to have a positive intention followed by positive action. In order for someone to love you, you have to first love yourself and then be able to love someone else. Prince or princess charming is not going to just show up on your doorstep. Deal with your depression first and then go out and live. If you are willing to do those things, I think you have every right to hope for love.
2007-09-11 23:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋