If you were dating a guy and it came time to when you guys are going to have sex and you think his member is too big for you? Do you break up w/ him? Do you go ahead w/ it? What would you do?
2007-09-11 15:00:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have any experience in this area, but the best thing to do is just be honest and tell him that his size is making you uncomfortable. Maybe you two could adjust to each other bodies, compromise, explore other things, experiment, and take your time. But by all means, if you have a problem you should speak up and let the guy know, it is only fair. But if that doesn't work, then you might have to break up.
2007-09-11 15:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've actually had this problem, but, yikes, this is kind of a sensitive subject for this venue. Without going too far into it, i was once actually injured in fact.
But there is much that can be done to give you control, to ensure that things don't move too quickly. Remember what we're talking about here - a cavity created to allow a baby's head to pass thru.
Break up if you want, but i find that drastic and this just another problem to work thru.
2007-09-11 15:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to take his time with you. You can ask Sue Johannson on this one, if you don't believe me, but you can adjust easily if you take your time and make sure you include foreplay to help things along.
2007-09-11 15:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
There's a such thing as too big?
I hadn't noticed...
2007-09-11 15:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Katie M 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
hah "too big"? never thought of that one.
2007-09-11 15:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋