okay last year i liked him from the first day of school til the last day! i was so into him but too shy to talk to him that much, but i could tell he started to like me at the end of the year but then stopped. so i decided to forget about him for a while because he was holding me back. This year he isnt in my class unlike last year so every chance he gets like in the hallway or cafeteria he stares at me but i look away, becasue i dont know why if it means he likes me or if hes playing mind games to hurt me and if i kept just gazing or staring or w/e hes doing to me, then i dont know what that would tell him! srry if this is confusing, but to tell him its to painful to think about him anymore or i still like him then what way should i look at him? like shake my head a little like this isnt working or just frown and swallow? srry if this sounds stupid but i need help. what facial expressions tell guys different things? thankz so mUcH!
2007-09-11 14:43:09 · 31 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well easy thing to do is just go up to him and talk about it. if thats out of the question cuz youre too shy or w/e reason, (im still a bit confused) if you want to encourage him smile at him ... be bit flirty wink and look straight back at him while smiling. to tell him no well you should talk to him. us guys are dumb and can easily misunderstand a possible no for the girl being shy.
2007-09-11 14:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by shadow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he sensed that you liked him and at first he may have not liked you. But now it seems like he has grown interest in you. I think you both kind of like each other but neither of you don't now how to show it or express it. I remember the hardest thing for me in high school was to tell the person that I am interested in, how I felt about her. Maybe he is too shy or he is afraid that he might make a bad impression. If you really want to know if he likes you and you are still interested in see him, then why don't you write him a note. Tell him in the note how you feel about him. From what you said it seems like you will get a positive response.
2007-09-11 15:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you are in high school. As a much 'older guy' I would suggest right now to date other boys. If he is interested he'll be more likely to show interest in you if he doesn't think that you spend every waking hour thinking about him. Then if he shows that he is now interested in you play it cool, guys at this age are intimidated when a girl comes on too strong with her feelings. Lay back and let him express his feelings. Even if it's not what you want to hear it's better then fantasizing what you want but can't have. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Old adage is still true....don't put all your eggs in one basket. Good luck dhf1455
2007-09-11 15:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by dhf1455 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy then the next time he stares at you, look right in his eyes and smile. When you look someone in the eyes it is portraying to them that you are confident in yourself and the smile will tell him your interested.
If you dont the guy then just ignore him.....or you could frown at him when you catch him staring at you, that would definately send the message your not interested.
Once you smile or frown, if you want to talk to him go on up and say hi, or if you dont want to talk to him then go on with what you were doing.
Hope this helps....let us know
2007-09-11 14:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by cheyenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all he isn't doing this to hurt you, he would hve no motive for that. If you smile or wave when he looks at you it would give the idea that you are happy to have made eye contact, you are friendly and that you may like him. If you look scared that he is looking at you it would give him the sense that you do not like him and you are worried he likes you. If you look confused it would also give him the sense that ou don't like him. If you don't want to do any of these things then when you see him looking at you just slightly smile and look away after a few seconds.
2007-09-11 14:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by krysteven 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he stares and you again look at him for a second and smile and keep walking, after a couple times wait till you see him alone and when youre alone(even if its just the hall) and walk by smile and say something simple like 'hey how are you'
things will either grow from there or youll know that hes not interested, and youll figure things out without putting your *** out (figuratively)
2007-09-11 14:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by mrbait33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look at him with a smile and go about your buisness, if he is interested this might give him a boost to get into contact with you. Most guys just need a little hint that it is okay to approach you and a smile will do that. It might not happen at first but eventually it will work, if he is interested. If he is not interested then just have fun and don't worry about him. However if you are catching him looking at you then more than likely he is thinking about you.
2007-09-11 14:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how u know for sure he stopped liking u? why u assume what he feels when u can't read his mind? if u really like him, how about u start takling 2 him, invite him out sometime, this is the 21 century, it's not uncommon anymore that girls ask guys out u know? talk to him, get to know him... that way u ll find out if u REALLY like him, or if u just crushed on him. and also, acording on how he acts around u, u ll notice if he actually likes u or not. good luck, and stop assuming, u might be wrong.
2007-09-11 14:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, just walk up to him and say. Hey i like you. I gurantee this will blow is freaking mind. From what i read he likes you to, and is also to shy to act. So step up and say how you really feel. Whats the worst that can happen? An, i dont like you like that. Well hope for the best but expect the worst. If you dont act on it now, then you will always regret it and wonder what could have happened.
2007-09-11 14:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Don A 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
every one boy or girl, have a little infant deep inside of him/her, just let that little infant feel accepted, with a flooding smile and open arm body gesture( not literally open arms), and facing your body towards him, looking at the eyes with a sticky gaze.
looking away, your feet to the door direction, give attention to what's happening around while you talk, not smiling, all are "go away" signs.
don't be too forward in conversations, we get scared out pretty fast (not sure about everyone but I'm talking about me for example), but you can be safely be very forward in body language.
just as simple as that.
2007-09-11 14:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Default 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋