I have never been to Texas. I saw her for the first time in over fourteen years at my dad's funeral--which was three years ago. I have never stayed at anyone's home like that since I was younger. My mother in law will be going with me. Any suggestions?
2007-09-11 13:55:47 · 12 answers · asked by just julie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
That's going to be an interesting visit - your mother-in-law and the sister you've not seen in forever!
Everyone gave good advice here - things I would've said, so I'll give ya something else here...
When are ya coming to Texas? What part? If you go near Dallas, mention that you want to hit up the aquarium or the Farmer's Market or Central Market or go out to eat some real Texas steak (if you like red meat, the best steaks are here, I'm telling ya!).
Texas does do things bigger - there are bigger highways, bigger malls, bigger you name it. It's really quite interesting (I moved here just over a year ago).
Depending on when you're coming, you'll want to get advice on the weather. It varies between hot and humid and hot and raining (this past summer, anyway), except in the winter.
People here are mostly very polite - that southern manners deal - it's quite nice! Just don't expect it if you rent a car and have to drive the roads during rush hour - then it's each for him/herself!
Bring your digital camera (or get one) and just be with your family and enjoy the time while you're here. Make a memory...it'll be good! :)
2007-09-11 15:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by lookinforanswers 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't spread your things around. Keep them tidy and otherwise pick up after yourself, make your bed, etc. Try to do nice things around the house like help with cooking, do dishes, or whatever chores need to be done. Be independent. Don't expect your sister to spend all her time with you; although I'm sure she will want to spend time with you. She might have other things that she needs to take care of. You can help take some pressure off her by figuring out your own transportation for things that you want to see. Ask how you can help out like with babysitting or something else that she might need. Offer to take them out to dinner while you're visiting. I hope you have an enjoyable visit!
2007-09-14 07:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Offer to cook, always clean up behind yourself especially in the bathroom. If everyone else is sleep don't be the last one up watching TV. Insist on treating them to a meal even if it's just pizza, don't hog the phone and don't state any negative opinions about their lifestyle. Never ask "How much did that cost" I hate that question. Pack your own toiletries (travel size) Have your own money.
I hope you guys have fun and strengthen your family bond
2007-09-12 03:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by staymay 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Offer to help!!!! Cook a meal, make the salad, dishes? Wonderful conversations happen while cooking together. Pick up after yourself. Depending on how you get along, offer to wash a load of towels, or fold them for her. When I have family, I show them where the soda, snacks are kept and ask them to help them selfs and make it their home. It sure beats the constant "can I get you something", that gets annoying. Remember you want her to enjoy having you, not feel like your a chore.
I also suggest offering to take her (and her family) to a nice restaurant that you can afford. As a way of saying thanks for the hospitality.
2007-09-11 14:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by J M 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly. Offer to help with chores, etc around the house. Help clean up after dinner. Take her out to dinner at least once. Make your bed. And don't stay more than a few days.
"Fish and guests begin to smell after 3 days" - Ben Franklin.
2007-09-11 14:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Besides offering to help you should ask if they have any type of morning/ evening customs. That is, what time do they wake up/ go to bed. If they get up at 7:30am, set your alarm to that time. If they go to bed at 8:00pm, you don't have to go to bed the same time as they do obviously, but don't do any activities that would disturb them.
Remember, someone who lives in that house has to pay the bills, so don't use too many of their resources. Always ask to use their phone and Internet.
2007-09-11 14:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ in the sky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
remember when in rome do as the romans. this sounds like a family trip so i'd just be open and flexible to what ever they have to offer. so i wouldnt be too picky on the food or anything. i'd probably bring my own blanket, toiletries, pillow, and towels. thats just because i'm a bit ocd about that stuff.
have a safe trip!
2007-09-11 15:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rainey 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all be nice. Even if she looks or acts weird don't judge her. Get to know her! I can tell you you'll have a new BFF if you give her a chance. I mean you're sisters you have to have something in commen. Maybe you'll want to stay there longer? Tell me how it goes!
2007-09-11 14:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by Derp 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a considerate guest all ready!
If you have a job take them out to eat one night. Nothing fancy, maybe olive garden or apple-bees.
Most important~~~ HAVE FUN!
2007-09-11 15:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by MB-n-KC 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
all the suggestions I read were awesome!!! (Gee, makes me wish my kids were guests!!! maybe they would pick up after themselves!) Oh, that reminds me, pick up after yourself, make your bed, and be nice!!! All the helpful hints don't do u any good if you are a meanie. i'm serious!! Take it from me, people would rather be around nice people rather than deal with meanies!
2007-09-11 14:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋