This totally stinks. I have a crush on this guy at school, but the sad part is that I don't even know him. : ( I know, weird, right? Lol, well I can't say I actually like him a lot, I guess I just like his looks. But that's not bad, right?? Well, everyone says he's really nice, and I wanna meet him SO bad, but how in the world would I do that? I mean, I don't even know if he knows who I am or not. : ( Cause I mean, I'm not like one of those people who likes someone JUST for their looks (even though it is a huge part), and I like to get to know them. He seems nice, but who knows? What would you do?
PLEASE HELP! : ) lol
2007-09-11 13:31:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But HOW do I meet him???
2007-09-11 13:49:29 · update #1
I have a similar type of problem. I start liking guys I don't really know or talk to. It's kind of like your obsessing about them.. All I can say is that you have to get to know him, talk to him, hang out. Then either it turns out he is nice and he likes you, or he's an *** and you can get yourself to get over him.
:> Good luck.
2007-09-11 13:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when I was in that situation I just walked up to the person and said hi. But then again it easy for me to strike up a conversation with anyone. So if it is hard for you guess what? Come out of the shell and say hi. You could just talk to him and give off the vibe that you think he looks good. Be a flirt. That's what I did with this girl I used to talk to. We ended up hanging out later on that week and the next week we ended up...... well I won't tell you that part. But still if you like him then just pursue him. You really have nothing to lose. Alright?
2007-09-11 20:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by ikaman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem before. If you havn't even talked to him before, and you don't have the courage to, then I suggest you move on. If you really want to meet him, IM him before you talk to him in person, or talk to him with a person who knows him and will introduce you to him. I'm sure it will all work itself out in the end. Good luck
2007-09-11 20:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by GR21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got classes with him, act like you forgot your homework and ask him if he knows or if there was any homework at all. I like to call this lil' talk "the spark". If no classes together then just go up and talk to him and talk about whatever you want to.
2007-09-11 20:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by dclizardcash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like totally settle down.
You're projecting your own needs onto a fantasy.
People with exceptional looks, often don't develop personality.
Look at Britney & Paris.
2007-09-11 20:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh god, i can TOTALLY relate. its just what your hormones do. you don't pick them, you're just attracted to them for no reason. and it might not even be THAT sexually. i would meet him and talk to him a lot. getting to know him better would definetly be the best thing. maybe you'll realize that you dont even like him for who he is. OR maybe you will just adore him even more.
hope i helped!
2007-09-11 20:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have done some research on him, but the only way you can know him is to introduce yourself. don't be shy, or fearful put on your pretties smile and do it. if he is as nice as you were told you'll be fine.
you'll do great.
2007-09-11 20:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by lyn-lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make a point of getting to know them.
2007-09-11 20:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on your way to becoming a woman, you walk up to him and introduce yourself.., this is the mill ya know!!
Good Luck !!
2007-09-11 20:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by scarlett11 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say just go up and say hi. Or as you walk by him smile and say hi, nothing to serious. Once you have said hi once you can go from there..
2007-09-11 20:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Sarina77 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋