So there is this girl that I like. In previous questions I have asked, it gives all the details. Well she is older than me, by a year and our homecomming is coming up. I just met her like 3 weeks ago. We have been walking to class together everyday. I think she knows I kinda like her, but I don't think she knows it to the extent that I do like her. So we have been semi-flirting everyday and walking really close. Do you think I should ask her to homecomming?
Keep in mind that we do not date. I would like to, but I don't know that much about her yet. Plus not sure if she likes me at all. Right now we are just friends, I just dont want to be stuck in the friend zone (NO Girls that does not mean all I want is sex).
2007-09-11 10:23:02 · 15 answers · asked by Southern Comfort 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not
I think u shall be more proactive and start asking her out
I mean don't do the movie thing, just like might be hang around more. Like study together, go to party together as dates, do sport together, might be even teach her some trick in sport. Some girls like that. Just be there more with her. As you say, u need to get to know her more. And you can't do that by just doing nothing.
U two can laugh and chat everyday, why being so shy about hang more out together.
i dont' know about her, and you won't know if you really would like a relationship with her anyway, if u don't make it a first move
I won't disclose you are interest as of yet..........I mean you can always show you are interest by inviting her to party, doing stuff with her, but as long as you don't tell her those 3 words, it gives you more room in developing something richer... be it friendship or love relationship, who knows, let time and fate decide. But fate cant' help much if we dont' help ourselves
2007-09-11 10:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by deskof.vivian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this really has to be from your best judgment. If you arent afraid of being rejected or you think shell say yes, then ask her. But if you think theres a high chance that she might say no and you dont want to be rejected then i wouldnt ask her.
But if you dont think theres anyone else she wants to go with, id say its worth a try. Maybe you could hint it to her, ask her who shes going with or if shes even going.
You should be able to tell by the way she acts around you if shes into you or not. And if she says yes, then you know you can try to take it to the next level.
Don't take it too hard if she says no, girls are crazy sometimes :P and that doesnt mean you still cant be friends!
2007-09-11 17:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her!!! if she didnt even kinda like you she wouldnt let you walk her to class or walk really close to each other and she would be all over other guys. ask her theres nothing to lose. if she says no she says no (she wont) but that doesnt mean that you didnt try.
2007-09-11 17:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wasn't interested in you she would not be walking to class with you. You aren't going to get to know her better if you don't ask her out and now is your perfect opportunity.
2007-09-11 17:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER!! you guys are already friends and if she HAS to have some kind of hint you like her. If she didnt like that or feltweird, wh ywould she keep leading you on? She msut feel something as well. Ask her, nothing to lose.
2007-09-11 17:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by CORAZON QUE NO SiiENTE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think by all means you should ask her. make your intentions clear from the begining other wise you may just end up in the so called "friend zone"...
good luck buddy
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2007-09-11 17:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it =]
if you don't you'll never know!
don't let the doubts of today ruin greatness tomorrow =]
2007-09-11 22:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by miss j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. She may be waiting for you. Hurry up before someone else does.
2007-09-11 17:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...you're obviously totally into this chick and so go for it. it sounds to me that she likes you too. i'm sure she won't shoot you down if you ask her. as NIKE would say: JUST DO IT!
2007-09-11 17:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by substitute_for_real_emotion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't ask her...you should sit at home alone that nigth and wonder why your not there having a good time
2007-09-11 17:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by michaelpaul7747 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋