I have a great support system( i.e. family, friends and doctors) but I am always sad and feel alone. I get help from doctors and meds, but it feels like a losing battle! How can I feel less alone? I know other people have lives to live and I can't bother them all day and night. What can I possibly do?
2007-09-11 10:22:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I have battle this for a life time.....it comes to down to being happy with who you are I guess.....I think that people like you and I live our lives to please others and have forgotten about US..it is important that you find yourself ..who you are..what you like to do..goals and objectives.............
2007-09-11 10:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find comfort in being alone. I really enjoy being alone, (I am married and I work with a close team) so when I do get alone time I LOVE IT! Find things like reading, hiking, cooking, watching tv, surfing the web, etc.
Also, when you are around people why do you feel lonely. It doesn't make sense. I think your substituting that word for what you really feel. But LONELY doesn't sound like the right word. Next time you experience this, sit back and ask yourself what it is that your really feeling and then ask yourself "what do I want right now?"
The answers could be:
More intelligent conversation that fulfills me.
A hug or some kind of physical contact.
Laughter
Kindness
I want affirmation that this person cares about me.
Give it try.
We almost always know the answers to our own questions; you just need to listen to what you're saying.
2007-09-11 10:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by enriquelomasa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
properly it would be considering you never gave marriage a attempt. It grew to become into not a attempt and fail difficulty. We as human beings are programmed to attempt to discover somebody and have young little ones which will proceed the kinfolk line. particularly once you're hitting the better 0.5 of existence this registers. It is clever too, considering you like somebody there with you once you get previous, to computer screen your little ones advance and to computer screen them advance their young little ones. in simple terms by way of fact somewhat some marriages fail does not advise all of them do. you nevertheless have faith that. to discover your soul mate and to advance previous along with her or him from time to time comes with a value. some pay larger then others. yet i think that no rely the cost it incredibly is continually properly worth it. not something concerns in existence different than for romance. All else passes and fades, yet actual love maintains to be till the spirit passes. it extremely is properly worth each little thing you have.
2016-10-10 09:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by robie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try some activities and bonding with your family more. Not that you aren't close, but you should get closer. Same with your friends!
2007-09-11 10:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by Helper1337 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-11 10:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should try and be more social with people
2007-09-11 10:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
there is only one person that can fill the hole that your life has.... Jesus.. He died on the cross for you and when you ask him into your heart you don't feel like youre missng anything! Trust me, I used to be all sad untill I asked Jesus into my life... I feel great now!!!
2007-09-11 10:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny S 4 · 1⤊ 6⤋