My fiance and I broke up a couple of weeks ago and I'm still depressed about it. I saw him earlier today at Applebee's with some co-workers and my friend literally had to stop me from going over to him. I can't help thinking of him because I still love him so much and wish we still were getting married but he broke up with me because of his daughter came back in his life and he said he needed some time to get to know her. I don't understand why he would hurt me because of this. My friends suggested I go out and meet new guys to help but I don't think it will. What do you guys think?
2007-09-11 09:42:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go shopping, go out with friends,,, laugh and just hang out with girlfriends. You'll meet the right person, you will.
2007-09-11 23:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that he did that to you. That was a pretty harsh and selfish thing for him to do to you.
Look, the only thing that will help heal your wounds is time.
I'm not sure how long you were together but it will be a while before you can move on. It's really hard when you love and care for someone so much and for that person to just blow you off like that.
Unfortunately there's no miracle pill for the pain to go away but if you can keep yourself busy hanging out with your friends and yes meeting new people you'll find yourself thinking about your ex less and less.
2007-09-11 16:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. That is the only thing. Soon you will be ready to find sombody new.
I don't know why you broke up in the first place but if it had anything to do with, cheating, abuse, or drugs, don't ever think about giving him a second chance.
2007-09-11 16:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me I will make you forget about him ! Honestly without saying something pervy best way to get over someone is to get someone else. Or you can drink him away but be careful or some **** like that song Whisky lullibye might happen ! Yipes better stop here thanks for the 2 points!
2007-09-11 16:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is a big part of my son's life now (from a previous marriage) so I don't know what his hang up is.
That's neither here nor there.
Find yourself a nice transition guy and treat him like crap until your heart has hardened a little.
2007-09-11 16:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think there is a quick way. It just takes time. It will get easier with each day. If you are not ready to date, do not force it.
2007-09-11 16:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by clg1975 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it seems impossible now, but in time you'll move on. You can't force it. You just have to move on and focus on you - be introspective for a while and get stronger!
2007-09-11 16:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by wh_johnny_05 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he is spending time with his daughter and you give him his space he will always think highly of you remember life is long and anything can happen so don't burn bridges that you may want to cross again
2007-09-11 16:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hook your self up, go hiking,jogging,buy some new clothes, dont worry about being in another relationship or hooking up. if you do hook up more power to ya, but dont let that be the focus. i dont know about your girls telling you to go out and hook up that doesnt sound right go out and be your self explore who you are and live and love life
2007-09-11 16:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by a s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ow well i am very very sorry he did this to you...and that tome is very selffish act..if he loves you he wouldnt exclude you from his life..like that...so yes his daughter came back in his life but at the same time she has to get to know both of you...really really sorry he did this to you.....let him be..dont stress him..maybe he might rethink things and come back to you..........
2007-09-11 16:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by jessica s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋