how do i start a conversation with a girl i dont even know, barely see her and really like?
2007-09-11 09:41:05 · 9 answers · asked by mephisto 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The polite thing is to go up and intruduce yourself to her. Do it courteously and watch her eye contact as well as the tone in her voice and body language when she answers back. She may be avoiding you althgether and not want a relationship. I know that when my husband first wanted to get to know me I brushed him off 7 times in a row because I didn't want to have a relationship with him... I thought. He just seemed like a person that I wouldn't be interested in at all. We have been married 35 years now so don't give up if you feel that this may be the one person you want to really have a relationship with. I do strongly suggest that you do not make any advances that signify that you are coming on too strongly. Believe it or not, the real girls out there don't like it. Just be yourself and be a gentleman and please dress so that you look respectable. You will win a girls heart a lot better that way, no matter what the 'mod' styles are. No real girls want to associate with guys that cannot dress themselves or cannot handle themselves in front of them. If you are just yourself, then whatever you say will also come out naturally and not artificial or put on. A real girl wants to find a real genuine guy herself.
2007-09-11 09:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by 'Sunnyside Up' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude im like in a same situation
i dont know her but its been happening i still like her its been nearly 2 years i still havnt told her but now ill telll her its pretty hard since shes with her friends dont regret like i am i had lots of chances i still might just to be on the safe side try
2007-09-11 09:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by RKO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of some questions beforehand that you'd like to ask her: where are you from? What are your hobbies? what do you like to do for fun? etc. Then you will not get nervous if the conversation stalls. You'll already have back-up questions to turn to.
2007-09-11 09:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by clg1975 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start with small talk, but don't always go by small talk. that gets old and annoying. Gradually talk about things that mean stuff to you and her. Ask her questions about her, but not stuff thats REALY deep. Good luck
2007-09-11 09:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jessiexxlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you introduced yourself to her yet? If not, do so. Other than that, just walk up to her and ask how she is. Then ask what she likes to do in her free time and ask her out to do something that she likes to do (for example: if she says she loves to go bowling, ask her out to go bowling) Good Luck
2016-04-04 02:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first start by smiling at her when you do see her then form there say hi. don't worry things will fall into place if the smile worked.
2007-09-11 09:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not be scared now you are the man women want to know that they are wanted so just do it. talk to her start a convo with how are you and go from their.
2007-09-11 09:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by tresa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest the accidental conversation. 'Accidentally' grazing her shoulder in the hall way, et c.
2007-09-11 09:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by William, It Was Really Nothing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi and talk and stuff
2007-09-11 09:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋