I broke off with my girlfriend but there is her stuff like clothes etc lying in house ???? What do I do with it ???? Dont want to return it as I dont to restart the conversation with her............BURN IT ??? DONATE IT ?????
2007-09-11 09:37:14 · 37 answers · asked by ash90210 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put in a plastic bag and drop it off at her house?
2007-09-11 09:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
You need to return it, it is her stuff after all. Do you have a mutual friend who can take it to her or do you know where she is staying and just leave it on the doorstep with a note. If there really is no way of returning it, just keep it boxed up for 3 months and if she hasn't asked for it back by then, give it to charity.
Best of luck but don't do anything out of passion - it will only mske her angrier. Good luck!!
2007-09-11 09:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously you'll come out looking much less like an as*hole if you just give it back (not that you are an asshole but if you do this to her stuff people will think that off you). Think about the long run. What if you run into a super hot chick and she happens to know your ex. And she also happens to know that you burnt your ex's clothes. Chances are you'll strike out even before you get the chance to bat. I was with a guy for 6 years and he cheated on me. I gave all his stuff back. Well...I actually put it all out on my deck and said it was ready to be picked up whenever...but still it got back to him. :)
Bite the bullet and give the girl her stuff back and then forget about her and know what a better person you are.
2007-09-11 09:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by lovelylady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and CLOTHES ARE IMPORTANT to me! If you dont want to talk to me, the best is to return the clothes. Drop it off my doorstep. Leave it in my house when I'm not there so we dont see each other.
If you don't do this, you'll see you ex-girlfriend coming back at your house to get her clothes. I don't think you want to see her again. So return the clothes and make sure she doesn't have a reason to talk to you again.
2007-09-11 09:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, it is still her property...burning it or donating it or using any other means to not give her back her stuff would lead to a conversation with her demanding why didn't you return those.
courses of action:
1. give 'em to mutual friends and ask them to return the clothes
2. plastic bag then throw it at her place
3. tell a friend to tell her to get the clothes
4. wait for her to return for them
5. settle your issues, come back at each other and live happily ever after
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2016-10-20 00:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by fenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just box it up and put it in the closet, the more you act out about something then they just get what there looking for and thats to get at you. So whenver like in a day or week or months she asked for it simply say fine it'll be on the porch for her to pick up and leave it at that simple. Good luck!
2007-09-11 09:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't burn or donate it.They are still her stuff and it's very wrong of you to dispose them like that.Get a box or bag and put all her stuff into it.Get a friend of hers or yours to take it to her or you keep it with you and ask her to send some one to get her stuff.You can send her a txt or mail instead of taliking to her over the phone or mail it to her.
2007-09-11 09:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't' destroy, donate or throw away without her permission. People get sued for doing things like that.
Either mail the stuff to her
Tell her to come pick her things up (set a date and time)
You don't have to speak to her if you don't want. Just give her stuff to her and leave it at that.
Drop it off at her house
Give it to one of her friends or relatives to give to her.
2007-09-11 09:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥SLIM♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want her to burn ur crap? Even if u hate her guts right now, take the high road. Put in a bag and arrange for someone to pick up her crap. (Save a pic or 2 for a dart board).
2007-09-11 09:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by get_busy_living 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
box it stick it in the garage or spare closet. if you dont want to start a convo with her imagine a convo where you tell her you got rid of all her stuff. or you could drop it off with some of her friends or fam. aww screw it burn em and spit somewiskey on the flames
2007-09-11 09:44:19 · answer #11 · answered by a s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋