Almost a year ago my husband and I loaned my sister our brand new car with intentions of her buying it asap. She was/is going thru a divorce and driving around a very unsafe car with our neice and nephew so we decided to help her out. She has a repo mustang that i dont know if she is paying on and still hasnt filed for divorce. Shes blowing money on other things when she needs to be working on her credit to buy this car. shes never missed a payment and has been really good in that fact. My husband and i are plannin on gettin either a new car or him a crotch rocket bc im going back to work. My mom swears that my hubby and i agreed to her havin 2 years to get the car. itll be a year in feb my mom said that in another year she still wont have enough credit back up to buy the car, i dont know what to do i dont want to screw her over and my mom to be pissed *4 going back on our "word". we did this out of love for my sister and in the end we are gettin screwd. i need all advice i can get.
2007-09-11 09:26:44 · 3 answers · asked by angelkisses7951 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We don't have any papers stating the exact date or any date for that matter on when she was suppose to buy it.My mom swears we had a 2 year agreement with her which my husband and i dont recall ever hearing bc he wouldnt of allowed that, my mom has also told us that if my sister says we did and we continue to try and "screw" her over she will be pissed off and take my sister side. My husband and I will NEVER loan a car in our name or anything close to that again. we heard if she buys the car after the car is 2 years old her payments will go up by appx 200 dollars *which she cant afford* we cant afford to pick up any slack in the car she doesnt pay for. PLEASE HELP! i would like little or none trouble in this section bc i dont want hard feelings.
2007-09-11 09:33:30 · update #1
" No Good Deed Goes Unpunished.."
Maybe you should talk to your sister when your mother isn't around..
and renegotiate...
2007-09-11 09:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is plenty of time to get her credit back up. Maybe she needs to stop looking at buying your brand new car and look at somethign she can afford and quit throwing away her money on crap. Unfortunately there is no easy way to approach her on this. Maybe she should be giving you the payments for the car to you and you send them in to the car company. Consider this a loan to her that she must pay on time and if she misses several payments youtake the car back.......she needs to get her crap together and file for the divorce also. No divorce = no car.
2007-09-11 09:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother needs to stay out of it, this is between you and your sister. If your sister does not stick to what she agreed to do, either take the loss of the car or take the car back.
2007-09-11 09:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋