Do you believe there are limitations as to what type of sex you can have in the sanctity of marriage?
2007-09-11 08:23:06 · 36 answers · asked by stepphie aka Jesus Girl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
no, the marriage bed is undefiled ..
2007-09-11 08:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 5⤋
I do not know why but the scripture Romans 12:2 keeps coming to mind, it says: And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Basically do not follow the example of how the world is doing things. If you do not feel right about something, don't do it because it is a sin to you. Also think about how God created us...that in itself shows us what I believe God intended for us. He never intended certain...(hmnnn) things to go in certain wrong spots...if you know what I mean...lol. The Lord has designed us in a way that those body parts are made for each other. You don't want to get all caught up in lusting, instead of loving. God wants you to enjoy it, and this sexual union creates a stronger love for each other. Any other questions about these issues you can read about in 1 and 2nd Corinthians.
2007-09-11 09:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biblically, anything goes as long as it is mutually agreeable, pleasurable, and not offensive to the partner.
Exceptions to this would include anything that is sinful such as watching pornography, sharing sexual fantasies about other people, or engaging other people in sex acts with you.
Anal sex is widely argued in Christian circles, as is oral sex. I do not see anything in Scripture forbidding oral sex, thus do not see it as sinful. So long as both husband and wife are comfortable.
Anal sex I think should really be left up to the married couple. Some feel that it is considered sodomy and therefore sinful. You can also harm the wife, and it is easy to get infections.
2007-09-11 09:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a few things that are never allowable sexually for a married couple. The practice of “swapping” or “bringing in an extra” (threesomes, foursomes, etc.) is blatant adultery (Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3). Adultery is sin even if your spouse allows, approves, or even participates in it. Pornography appeals to the “lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes” (1 John 2:16) and is therefore condemned by God as well. Other than these two items, there is nothing that Scripture specifically forbids a husband and wife to do with each other – as long as it is by mutual consent.
2007-09-11 08:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Freedom 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
The Bible places no restrictions on the marital, sexual relationship but it would be understood that both husband and wife would want to participate. If one partner doesn't want to take part in a specific act, the other shouldn't force the act on that partner. But if it is important to one, the reluctant partner should work their way up to attempt it, if possible. It's a give and take relationship; like everything else in marriage.
2007-09-11 09:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by starfishltd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you keep it between the two of you and not invite others in (this rules out porn too) and as long as both are willing to participate in the desire activity, it would be okay to do it.
Anytime you have a question of what to do in your marriage ask these questions:
* Am I honoring my husband?
* Am I loving my wife?
* Is it glorifying to God?
If you can say yes to these three then you can do it! God desires for us to have freedom and not to limit us unnecessarily.
2007-09-11 08:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by worldsojourner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In general no, if you both enjoy that practice; and it is not harmful physically, emotionally, or spiritually; and the sex is only between you and your married opposite-sex partner.
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2007-09-11 08:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both are happy with it...and safe sex...
anything goes [ not evil ]
evil undo/overdone loss of any ones material, physical, emotional, or spiritual well being for my gain, non gain, others, groups or organizations
2007-09-11 08:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by john 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
David, who Yahweh apparently called a "righteous man", had 300 wives and 700 concubines (mistresses). That being said, I think the field is pretty wide open. However....
The bible is perfectly clear that if Yahweh orders you to sleep with your dead brothers wife (who Yahweh killed), you are NOT allowed to use the "pull-out" method or else Yahweh will kill you. (Genesis 38)
So unless you violate that you should be in the clear.
2007-09-11 08:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by QED 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The bible says that the marriage bed is undefiled. I would take that to mean that whatever is acceptable to both partners is a "go."
2007-09-11 08:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by goinupru 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES I DO ! I need to check out the marriage bed is undefiled thing tho.
2007-09-11 08:31:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋