My new partner is extremely kinky and likes to be very dominate in the bedroom, i've never quite experienced sex like this before and I really enjoy it. The first time we were together he asked if he could tape it, I told him no and he was ok with it, but now his birthday has come and he wants a BJ on video for his birthday gift, i've only known him for 3 months and i'm alittle weiry of documenting something like this, even though I would like to do it for him. I don't want to end up on the internet, even though I truly believe he would'nt do that, I don't trust to many people. What should I do?
2007-09-11 02:25:31 · 22 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say don't do it! 3 month's isn't long enogh for that kinda trust!
2007-09-11 02:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way you should do it! The relationship may not last, but a videotape is forever. How would you feel if you split up and he posted it on the internet or showed it to your family, friends or your new guy. How would you feel if you found out he was an immature jerk when he pulled the tape out at a party for public viewing thinking he was being funny? In 3 months you don't know for sure that he wouldn't. I even married a guy who was psycho and didn't realize it until going to the altar. If he is already pushing for it, you can assume that you aren't the first. He probably has a collection of such videotapes. I find it kind of creepy.
2007-09-11 09:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to videotape sex but I certainly would not let a man have a video of me giving him a ******* or anything else. I would keep the video for my own satisfaction because unfortunately especially since your partner is "really kinky" It could not only end up on the internet but in the hands of someone you really don't want to see it.. Videos for men are an excuse for revenge.
2007-09-11 09:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes ... and maybe you're to YOUNG to have heard this ... but... "Don't do anything that you wouldn't want to see on the front page of the New York Times."
If the guy wants porn, he can get plenty of it without involving you. And if he wants it SO much, I'd advise you to consider a new boyfriend.
2007-09-13 00:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by wyomugs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to be sure, that is if you are going to do it, insist on wearing a mask that way you can't be recognized if it ever did turn up on the net
2007-09-11 09:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yall have only been together for 3 months of course you shouldnt do it. He could get mad at you and show it to all his friends. guys love to brag and if you have any respect for yourself you wont do it.
Good Luck!!!
2007-09-11 09:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should expect that anything you do on videotape will be viewed by others. Maybe only his closest friends, maybe the entire planet. But you can bet your reputation on the fact that it will not be kept private. In fact...that's exactly what you will be doing.
2007-09-11 09:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by nevit 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2007-09-11 09:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Maphondo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will end up on the internet for sure.
2007-09-11 09:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Danny K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it! it cud come back to haunt u.. u no.. like blackmaill. or end up on the internet
2007-09-11 09:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋