I'm a 20-year old virgin, not because I haven't had the opportunity before (I've been asked four or five times in the past) but because I'm terrified of the idea that I might disappoint someone I care about. This problem led me to break up with a girlfriend I spent a year with and is becoming an increasing source of tension with my current girlfriend. Can anyone help me out?
2007-09-10 22:28:41 · 17 answers · asked by andgparker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most are poor My first time I was crap lasted 20 seconds or something ha, but practice makes perfect honest although can't profess to be perfect YET, but just give it a go you'll like it and eventually you won't care your no good or you'll just get better maybe you are already really good. doubt it though,.
and if you meet the right person, because not everyone fits together properly if you know what i mean, if you do it'll be good anyhow.
2007-09-10 22:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virgins are not necessarily bad. The simply suffer by comparison. As a virgin male, the best thing you can do is let the woman know that you worried about not being good enough, and let her take the lead. Woman who don't have a problem with you being a virgin or inexperienced love that sort of thing. You will find that after a few times your skill will increase exponentially. Just don't get a big head about it.
2007-09-10 22:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are usually bad at everything they do, when they do it for the first time, and having sex is no exception. The trick is to learn from your mistakes and improve over time. It's not something you can learn from reading about it. It's a practical skill that takes practice to learn. And it also helps if you do it with an older, experienced woman at first. Because she is more likely to be patient with you and more willing to help you learn. But many people are against this kind of thing, because they believe that sex should always be a part of romance that can lead to a long-term relationship.
2016-05-17 04:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by carissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about a girl and she cares about you she will be thrilled to share the experience with you and not at all worried about your performance. My now husband was a virgin when we first slept together and trust me, sleeping with a virgin is exciting. Going where nobody else has been before is a pleasure on its own! I was so glad to be his first and I loved hjow excited he was, he didn't do badly either hehe Its not all about how long you last or if you can give multiple orgasms, it is about love and being intimate and closer in your relationship, remember that.
2007-09-10 22:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by SmEllY! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about bad virgins but i'm still a virgins too. it's not bad still being a virgin..... Don't you agree? If someone ask you to have*** but you don't want to, say no. it's not hard.
2007-09-10 22:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by CuTe BaBy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virgins aren't bad in bed if they're well read and know how to use their imaginations.
Just make sure she gets hers first. I have two words of advice for you: oral sex.
2007-09-10 22:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by ddd 874 587 545 543 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to be afraid of first time is always the best. But do take precautions
2007-09-10 22:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by ra3356 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they are but once they do it more they will be better , any way we all was bad first time right there is a first time for every 1
2007-09-10 22:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by miliy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do you mean bad in bed? I mean, I remember my first time, everyone left happy and so has everyone since. It dosent take much to be good thats for sure.
2007-09-10 22:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are virgins bad in bed? Well, you have never had a complaint about your performance have you????
Don't worry about it - just get the girl to teach you.
Fun :)
2007-09-10 22:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by tayhay 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋