Need help with girl issue PLEASE!?

Question

Well heres my story..

Me and this girl were talking for about a month and now we are dating..We both love each other but there is a problem..age..I am 17 years old she is 14..I know what your thinking "why would he want to date a 14 year old?". This girl is everything that i want in a girl she is PERFECT in my eyes. Well her mom says now that she HAS to break up with me when I turn 18 so that gives us 6 months left. But i dont want to be with her for just 6 months. How can I convince her mom to let me date her after my 18th. I mean its my birthday and thats the date her mom said she has to break up with me. I need help how can i convince her mom? Any help will go far.

Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

Have sex before you turn 18.

Answer 2

Speaking as a mother of a teenage girl, I would not want you to date my 14 year old daughter either. It wouldn't have anything to do with you personally, but morally I think it is wrong. She is under age. Perhaps you can remain as friends? Is that a possibility with her mother? or with you two? In 2 or 3 years time, she would probably be ready to date. A 14 year old has so much growing up to do, no matter how mature they act. Please act responsibly and do the right thing. If it is meant to work out for you with this girl, it will happen when she is older, and her parents will respect you a whole lot more for being responsible.

Answer 3

I suppose it's too late to forge a birth certificate to reduce your age.

This woman is bizarre, maybe mentally ill, so she might be unresponsive to normal logic, but with normal parents, the best way to get them to loosen up is to ingratiate yourself with them, and treat their child with respect. If you smell bad, dress like a punk, or grunt at the mother, she won't trust you with her daughter. If you dress and groom yourself well, and talk politely to the mother, she might decide that you're not a threat to her daughter.

This is the only hope I see for you. No argument from you or your girlfriend is going to convince her of anything, and would only be counterproductive.

My son is 6 months younger than you, so I know something about dealing with parents. If my son dated a 14-year-old I would sure want to know why this girl was more attractive than any 16-18-year-old girl he knows. I'm not saying it can't work, but I do think the general suspicion about such an age difference is justified.

Answer 4

I believe you should respect the mother's wishes. If you and your girlfriend are meant to be, then it is definitely worth waiting until age is not an issue, or illegal. You are also very young, and shouldn't want to make any long term decisions until you are absolutely sure of what you want. I know you are saying you want her now, but soon you will be out of high school and having new experiences in life. Make sure and live life to the fullest before settling down.

Answer 5

for starters if you want her mom to approve of you or let u continue to date her daughter then you wouldnt be trying to convince her of anything. you should realy encourage her to listen to her mother because in the long short run of it, its gona cause more problems. your probly consuming up all the girls time and or smothering her its not healthy.

Answer 6

If you love this girl, then don't come between her mother and her. Do what her mother wants to avoid conflict, and if it's truely love like you say, then wait for her when she's a bit older.

Answer 7

talk to her mom and explain to her how much you love her daughter and maybe you can convince her not to go ahead with her decision

Answer 8

There's kind of nothing you can do. Treasure the times you have with her and remember them as if they were just yesterday.