I told a girl that i like that i have a crush on her luckily she took it well and said shed still talk 2 me. Ive known been chating with for like a month now and And two days after i told her about my crush isent her a message that i think ilove hr and explaining why and understnding that if its to akward Ill understand if she doesnt want 2 talk 2 me again. im corcerne about how she will take it cuz she hasnt read the mesage yet. wat u girls think about this be completely honest. thanks
2007-09-10 21:20:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can not hold what you feel inside your chest you have to get it out one way or the other regardless of how the second person feels
2007-09-10 21:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by lucy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Infatuation is not love, and neither is lust. The last thing a girl wants is some lovesick puppy dog guy drooling over her and making a fool of himself. Even relationships that truly are "love at first sight" (yes, I do believe it can happen) need time to grow and develop as you get to know and trust each other so that both know "I love you" is sincere, from the heart, and not cheapened by lack of depth in the relationship.
Show some self-respect, treat her like a person and not just an object of desire, be friends before being boyfriend/girlfriend, and if it doesn't work out, break it off clean; never ever cheat on her. Since you asked for complete honesty, one more piece of advise: being semiliterate is neither sexy nor attractive; you may want to spend a little more time on your English homework and a little less mooning over a girl - some day you will meet the right one. Good luck to you.
2007-09-10 21:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Heather D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very desperate to have her attention. Well you got it. Unfortunately, you may have the opposite reaction from what you wanted. Slow down, let her make the next move, if she does, then take it a lot slower than you have up to now. She may think you are moving to fast, I think you moved to fast. If she does not make the next move. She is telling you that she needs time and space. Give her that. I hope that you can work things out in a way that is not so rushed. Good luck.
2007-09-10 21:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by booper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is from experience as a guy. Do not tell a girl you like her; it puts her off unless she happens to already like you too. Ask her out; that's the way to do it as a real man. If she says no, don't push it because you will push her further away. Since she rejected you, she would be the one to come to you if she ever changed her mind...not that she is likely to change her mind.
And never tell a girl you love her when you are just crushing on her. Not only is it lying, but it's creepy for a guy or a girl. I hope things aren't permanently damaged between you and this girl. Whatever happens from now on, never hit on her again unless she reaches out to you first. God bless.
2007-09-10 21:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by wizball 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't think to hard, I wouldn't rush things. Only tell her that you have a crush on her, don't say anything else. Down the track you can say you love her, but when it's obvious that she has an interest in you (a couple of months.)
I think she would be flattered. Girls like compliments. I'd give it a couple of days. See if she says anything. You can then ask her if she wants to go on a date. You don't have to mention the word date really, you could ask if she wants to go to the movies sometime, or go out to lunch.
2007-09-10 21:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by MacFan6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if the girl feels the same or not. If she does she will always like it even if she will appear otherwise.
But, of course, it's better if you don't overdo it, I mean, if you see that she is surprised it's better to turn it into the joke or so and see what happens.
You know, we (girls) sometimes do not understand ourselves and our reactions and may even not realize the real status of our feelings towars somebody until somebody makes us realize. It's always good to give it sometime.
Nevertheless, it's also good that you have done that, I think.
2007-09-10 21:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have jumped the gun, next time, make sure she likes you back before doing that. No need to reveal your hand, until you get her on the hook. That way, no feelings are hurt. You have to romance a girl first, and then see how she feels about you, then try to see first if she feels the same way. Otherwise, you will feel rejected, awkward around her, and such. Play it cool...
2007-09-10 21:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were being honest.
She could at least be honest with you.
I wouldn't like to be told through a message, but that's just me.
Life is different now.
Too short and too quick.
Go for it. If it doesn't work, move on.
2007-09-10 21:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Shmooks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, thats too forward, calm down, and take things slow. If you put too much pressure on here, she is not going to talk to you again. Good luck
2007-09-10 21:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF, you're not even dating her and you text her saying you "THINK" you LOVE her? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!
You've got it all wrong, you should of asked to go out somewhere and see if you do ACTUALLY LIKE HER and see if this will lead anywhere. IF THE DAY OUT WITH HER WENT WELL then you could of kissed or something or make plans when to next meet up. BUT TEXTING HER TELLING HER YOU THINK YOU LOVE HER? My man, you got it wrong.
2007-09-10 21:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋