Any Decent guys already have girlfriends or are only interested in being my friend.. nothing more. the only guys who ARE interested in me, are the ones i only consider as friends. Im 14 & going through a kind of desperate stage. ive been through stages like this before..just not this bad. Im always upset and angry because of it. Im so sick of being angry. how can i get a decent boyfriend or otherwise someone worth liking as more than a friend, because otherwise i dont think i'll be my normal self again.
2007-09-10 20:31:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart you are so young... but i did feel the same way when i was that age, so its normal. all my friends had boyfriends and i was the only one that didn't. but now i look back and am glad i didnt have a boyfriend because i still had some growing up to do. you should not rush into anything especially so young. i'm 25 and freshly single again and its the best thing right now!! just be patient....you still got a long life ahead of you and plenty of guys in the future
2007-09-10 20:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by BBONKERS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger is a strange reaction to being single. Frustration and disappointment are normal but this anger could be trying to tell you something. Are you sure you're not really angry at your parents or something more specific than just not having a boyfriend? If anger is really messing up your life then it would be a good idea to talk to a counselor. Besides the pain it causes you, most people are not attracted to angry people.
2007-09-11 03:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very best way to snag attention from a nice young man is to be happy with yourself and let them see that.
Example, you see to really cute dog's.
One dog is snapping and growling, the other is wiggling his tail and looking all happy.
Which dog would you approach if ya wanted to pet or play with??
That is the same thing with people.
The happy go lucky people that enjoy life and like to help others are always the ones you approach first.
Be that person and you will attract many many good type boys and friends.
Good luck
2007-09-11 03:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 years old, I'm surprised that you can actually talk about decent guys. you all are still growing up at that age and no where near mature enough for a real relationship. focus on something better than guys, so when the time comes for great guys, you'll be ready.
2007-09-11 03:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by thatssorisque 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. You should be focusing on other things. Have fun with your friends. Focus on school. Try out new hobbies or skills and put your focus into that. You'll have plenty of time when you're older to worry about dealing with relationships.
2007-09-11 03:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by IAskUAnswer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you embrace who you are, and are happy and content with yourself, just one, then you will find someone. The chica who is raging within you, in anger and pain is not, at this moment very attractive. The vibes you give off come back to you. Good luck.
2007-09-11 04:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't imagine being so torn about having a bf at age 14. how about this....explore who that "normal self" really is first. if u try new things, live life without regard for bf's, etc i can promise u that every happiness in the world will be yours.
2007-09-11 03:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by ready 2 move on 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey when you be in right age you will find that guy,in this age what you gonna do with a boyfriend???
and if you really want to have a boyfriend ,try to do something in yourself that guys be interets in you
2007-09-11 03:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Denni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 14 years young, you are supposed to be single you little turd. Quit trying to grow up so fast.
2007-09-11 03:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
GOD is just busy writing the best love story for you....
2007-09-11 03:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by nap 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋