when me and my ex broke up..things were pretty much really complicated but we kept in touch. he was with someone, and i started messing with another guy. we pretty much still had all the feelings there, but our situation was just...not right. soo anyways, he started asking me questions about my current sex partner. our convo went something like this...
him: can i ask you a question and get an honest answer?
me: i dont like these questions, but sure ask me anyway.
him: ok, im gonna ask you two questions. who was bigger and who was better? you dont have to worry about hurting anyone's feelings, just tell me.
me:im not talking about that...i dont tell [current partner] that stuff either, even though he asks all the time.
him: ok ill be honest with you. i like how your breasts are nice and perky and not droopy.you have a great a$$, nice for grabbing.your pu$$y is right, some girls have ugly pu$$ies and yours isnt.and youre like a waterfall when you get wet and ur nice and tight..
2007-09-10 15:08:02 · 9 answers · asked by Love Child 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
which feels really nice. you are a little inexperienced, but i can teach you things. and you should talk to me a little more to let me know you're feeling good instead of just making noise.
me: ok...you want me to be honest? ill tell you right now that he's bigger but youre definitely better. you do all the right things. you make sure im ready for it and dont tryto stick it in too fast. he does. but bigger is not always better. its harder to suck and it hurts after a while.
him: thanks for hurting my feelings.
me:you said to be honest. i said you were better...
him:yeah i know. call me friday if you can see me. that is if you wanna mess with something small and fun.
i hung up on him after that. was i supposed to just lie to him to make him feel good about himself? i feel really bad now. especially since he said all those things about me and then i tell him what i told him :(
2007-09-10 15:11:47 · update #1
and by the way poppet, i dont have a boyfriend. so i didnt cheat. its clearly understood between the two of us that me and that guy arent together.
2007-09-10 15:20:05 · update #2
well he sounds insecure you can never win with people like that just remember some things are better off unsaid
2007-09-10 17:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be talking to you x - bf at all if he asks you questions like that. He is only trying to manipulate you into having sex with him again and using you for your body.
I would have been really angry if my wife or one of the gf's I had before I met my wife, told some other guy details about our sex life. That just isn't done!
You need to find a bf that is mature and respectful of you as a person. Your x bf doesn't come close to that! Please stop going out with guys that only want you "to get a piece". The sex may feel good but it will cause you a lot of problems in your life in the long run.
The man that you "fall in love" with will be one of the men you date and have sex with. If you don't have sex with a guy until you are sure that he is a mature, good man, that respects you and wants you for yourself and not just for your body; then you won't fall in love with someone who is a no good, jerk like your x bf.
If the guys you date and then have sex with are the opposite of the good man I described above, then the man you fall in love with will be a no good jerk like your x bf!
"Falling in love", is basically a physical, hormonal thing that happens when a couple has regular sex together that they really enjoy. It has nothing to do with whether the guy is good for you or whether the guy will make a good husband for you.
2007-09-10 19:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LoL
My ex did the same thing.
It depends:
If it was a rough break up and he did u wrong, I would say my new man had a 10 in. cock. But if u still care about his feelings, and still want him as a friend, say his is bigger. Guys need their egos stroked
2007-09-10 15:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by bkempress718 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations...you just cheated on your BF with your EX-BF.
Pick a guy and stay faithful. Good grief. People do NOT talk to their EX's like that.
2007-09-10 15:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol i really dont understand why he got so upset....i mean bigger isnt always better, experience is best. tell him that. kiss and make up you two ;)
2007-09-10 15:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Italiano-Guitarist 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
forget him!!!!!!!!!!!!! All he is interested in is a sex partner.Find a guy that likes you for your character and intelligence. That is how you build love and STRONG RELATIONSHIPS
2007-09-10 15:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, make him regret losing you
2007-09-10 15:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, he did ask for honesty, and you gave it to him. He asked for it.
2007-09-10 15:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what a moron....no, make that two!
2007-09-10 15:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋