ok, so here's the deal-
in 2nd and 4th block, 2 guys and i are pretty much a "group" for those two classes. i like one of these guys and i think he likes me too, but i'm not sure. i want to ask him out or at least ask him to homecoming, but idk how since the other guy is right there. i sometimes see him outside of class, so i could ask him to the dance there, but how do i do this? i really want to flirt with the guy, but the other guy is right there so it's weird! help me please! soon so i can ask him tomorrow! and in a very casual way.
2007-09-10 14:55:03 · 5 answers · asked by amallama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k, so homecoming is coming up for me too, and i'm kinda in the same boat as you! omgsh... really close to being in the same situation. first of all... flirt with him... the other guy probably won't care. second... don't be to desperate... playing "hard to get" is okay... if you can, and you think he might, wait for him to ask you to homecoming. or give him a hint or something, like, "so are you going to homecoming" this might jog his memory, and he'l be like, "idk... are you?" and you'll say, "i don't have anyone to go with" him: "you wanna go with me?" k, so maybe it won't happen exactly like that... but it's worth a shot! i hope we both end up with dates for homecoming!!! good luck!
2007-09-10 15:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by hpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tuffy. I don't your exact situation, or what your relationships with these guys are like, but here's what I would do.
I'd ask the guy I like out when the other guy isn't around. Then I would bluntly but nicely tell the other guy, right away so nothing awkward happens. maybe even directly ask if he's okay with it or something. from there, depending on how he took it, feel out what to do.
whatever you do, if you and the guy you like become "a thing", don't ignore the other guy. if he's okay that you guys are together (and not like furious or something), just flirt reasonably but include the other guy in conversation.
hope all goes well...
2007-09-10 22:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Amber W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should find out from someone if he likes you first just in case. and dont be scared to talk in front of the other guy, just pretend he is not there or make conversation with both of them. and then easly slide into asking him to the homecoming.
2007-09-18 21:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by elizabeth l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to him and say
Hi ............ what are you doing later on?
I was wondering if you wanted to go to the mall
Help me with my homework
get a rootbeer float
walk me home
take me to homecoming
(pick one of the above)
I think you are cute
nice
fun
smart
(pick one of the above)
and thought it would be something good
cool
fun
nice
to do to get to know you better.
What do you think? Are you up for it?
2007-09-10 22:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should say follow me and take him to a private place and say will u go to homecoming with me
2007-09-10 22:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by lilbaby1294 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋