I'm a freshman in high school and he's a junior in high school. I never really talked to him before and i want to get to know him, but I don't know what to say. What can i say to him without embarassing myself. How can I make him ask me out or like me. I really, really appreciate the answers!! Please don't put anything dumb.
Also I'm a shy person.
2007-09-10 13:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by RichieSamboraGirl93 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make him ask you out. You just have to start hanging around some of the same places as him and let him know you are interested - flirt a little. Since he is older, you also want to find out if he already has a GF before you make a move.
2007-09-10 13:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Sarah K ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, im a freshman too. and i guess there is some weird rule you girls think exists that the guy ahs to ask you out..you can ask him out too. if you do, dont come on too strong. just kinda chill with him try and talk to him. maybe get his number or if you both have myspaces, get his url. get to know him, then decide whenther you like him or not. i hope this helped you
2007-09-10 13:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by djmehs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy explains why you wont ask him out urself, but dating is getting to know a person, so you either gamble losing him to the junior girls, or get the courage to ask him out yourself.
Ask him to Homecoming.
2007-09-10 13:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kenan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun most men notice the girl they want to pursue from the beginning. If he hasn't made an attempt and you've been around him.... I think you get the hint? Not being mean. But if he hasn't took notice, move on. You want someone who chases you! Not someone who doesn't realize your alive...
2007-09-10 13:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you cant make anyone like you or make them ask you out, so dont try.
my advice would be to talk to him. then, if he seems to not hate you, and he doesnt ask you out, just go ahead and do it yourself. guys like it when the girl asks them out. i would know.
that is my advice
good day to you
2007-09-10 13:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by climberguy12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out, talk to him if he plays sports compliment him or something.. but first find out if he alraedy has a gf.. try to be noticed by him
2007-09-10 13:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be more simple for you to ask him out, than to make him ask you out.
2007-09-10 14:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Cirrus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋