Deep question: identifying the spirit of rejection?

Question

For those who are able to answer this question, possibly someone involved in the deliverance ministry. How do you identify a spirit of rejection in someone's life? Out of their mouth's may come "Everybody hates me," "Do you hate me?" (I hear that one frequently.), inability to receive love ("no one ever does anything nice for me"), a tendency to avoid situations or relationships that may cause further hurt, and the holding on to bad relationships out of fear of being alone. Anymore insight?

Answer 1

I have things to say..... but will come back and put them down...... I want to *think* before I speak......... Ok, I am back....... *Sigh*, for some reason many years ago God decided to give me the *cutters* .. those young adults that were bent of self-mutilation...... anyway, it came about over the Internet...... and the one common factor I found, was * I do NOT deserve*....... the self worth factor was gone...... and it broke my heart to hear this........ and in my humble opinion , that is the bottom line and main component of the *rejection* spirit..... taking a person and making them believe they do NOT deserve......... go in peace........ God bless
PS....... one of the kids I helped about 6 yrs ago, is making the trip here next week to see me !!!!!!!! Glory to God..... I finally get to meet her face to face.........

Answer 2

As a new mom, I have been reading alot about attachment parenting and what that does in terms of making the child feel as though they belong. I am coming to believe if you are born into a family that isn't concerned with your attachment, fullfilling your basic needs, neglect or abuse, often the person will grow up with this mentality. I only speak from personal experience of what I experienced as a child and mother. For me it has been difficult to feel as though I belong in the world and often feel rejected by everyone. My mother, being mentally ill, did not love or want me and I often project that onto my present life despite the loving people I have in my life. But I think that this can be overcome by healing from the original rejection.