what is up with this boy?????

Question

so me & this guy had some interaction at this party all the way back in may. we knew each other b4 but we just had a conversation at the party..neways we talked then we danced & then we didnt really pay attention to each other. well i guess i hurt his feelings a little by not talking because he's told my best friend that i was mean. he keeps telling EVERYBODY that i like him & he makes a big deal of "avoiding" me whenever our groups of friends are together (which is A LOT)..his best friend is always saying things like "where's your boyfriend?" and stuff like that..calling the boy my boyfriend && saying that he would be sad if he knew i didnt like him. i'm sure that he's teasing me (actually i know he is)..but why is this guy so worried about me & telling ppl i like him if he hates me like i think he does???

oh and why are his friends saying things like that???

Answer 1

Relax! Just a consequence of insecurities, its a very manipulative way to handle it. But it comes down to the fact that something you did, say, acted, (doesn't really matter, its his perception) about how things went and how YOU were going to talk about it. Could be he does this automatically, could be he really thought you might come back with something and make him like, well, pathetic, or something, its his mind, I'm just trying to make some educated assumptions, (which lol means bs, but... intellegently...) ether way, relax try and talk sense into those that well listen (seems your doing a good job already of that, lol) and just try get people to see the "truth" of it, not in a malicious way, people tend to shy away from those, but just keep handling your business and keep making moves to get people to feel yea, this will blow over.... hopfully... does act kind of crazy but those who feel ya will help you put him in his place.