A friend of mine introduced me to this man over a year ago. We are both divorced, have children and we are both over 40. We dated for about 2 months then I got scared and told him I just wanted to be friends. He started dating someone a month later. Then we ran into each other about 2 months later and ended up back in each others arms. He quit seeing the other woman cause I didn't want to be with him while he was with her. We keep promising each other that we will always be friends no matter what. He's a very sweet, caring man. We are both really busy and we only manage to get together about once a week. We have a really good time when we get together, we talk and laugh all the time. I like him alot. He is very honest and helpful if I need his advice. He's very affectionate, sometimes we just sit in the car and hold each other and talk. I love being with him. What do you think does is have a chance at becoming something more?
2007-09-10 11:36:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes when you let someone go that you care deeply for, and they come back to you, it has a strong chance of being more. You and he needed that time apart to grow, and find out that you 2 were made to be together, now that's love. Now hold on to each other and keep the love alive, seems as though you have possibly found your soul mate, do you know how hard it is to find someone to share what you 2 have. I say.. YES.. it has a chance, of becoming something way more... if you want it.
2007-09-10 13:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will only tell. It depends on how long you both have been divorce. Sometimes when a person gets divorced, they want to have time either to themselves or time to date different people. If you got cold feet before, then he has his safeguard up concerning you since you have called it off before. So it is good that you want to remain friends, no matter what. There may be a possibility that someone else may come along down the road. Just go with the flow and enjoy the relationship while it's there.
2007-09-18 11:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now let's see. If I were in the same situation. I would definitely try to work in some more to spend with the guy to see what he has to offer in the way of a more meaningful friendship. You are both at that age where game playing is too old and honesty is the best ticket. I would suggest that the both of you sit over a nice cup of coffee after a night of good lovemaking and talk about where the relationship is going.
2007-09-18 09:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by rizing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl....I think it has a great chance of becoming much more!!!!
Maybe both of you want much more, but niether of you have told the other how you feel, so maybe thats why its just like ya'll are really good friends...
Tell this man how you feel about him, and hopefully he feels the same way.....I am sure he does!
Good Luck to the both of you!!!
2007-09-18 05:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the honesty, everytime, on top of everyones ability to grow.. See the love is never enough, everyones got love, shoot, cats love, mice even. Its simply never the point, it comes down to that friendship that ability to relate, thru that anythings possible. Understand thou, that were people loss sight, is that you have to continue to grow, relate, trust and fight to understand BOTH yourselves and this world. Ignorance can be the true distroyer of relationships, because ignorance always tends to pull us apart. But friendships are always about that fight, while love is always about pretending it isn't there, that its perfect. In end you have to see, the best marriages are those between friends, not lovers....
2007-09-10 12:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being over 40 the both of you then i believe the both of you
are mature adults and be able to sit down and work things
out between the both of you.
2007-09-18 04:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by menace2dennis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds cool to me but why do you need the validation of starngers if you're happy?
2007-09-18 10:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jody H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats meant to happen will always find a way.
2007-09-18 09:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it!! sounds like you two were ment to be together. just try to make more time for eachother....good luck...
2007-09-18 09:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by Izzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as his hung sounds good to me!
2007-09-18 06:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋