I mean you came early to church sit down, and pray and then 15 minutes into Holy Mass a family of 4 come in your pew, hit your legs and make you squirm and not pay attention to the Gospel that is being said.
Then, you have the ones that do their hair look at their nails, or watch, and fill out the envelope in one sitting, and leave early.
Mind you I do come in early, and leave last. I pray because I love God and give my whole attention to HIM. It's just an hour of my week. I won't distract anyone or make noise, and my cell phone is shut off, because I respect God, myself, and others. So tell me do you get offended when others act like boorish kids?
2007-09-10 10:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Note: The people that do this make noises or call attention to themselves. One man even cut his nails in church and he distributed The HOLY BREAD. So this is why I go to the Priest because his hands are sacred and cleaned before the distribution.
2007-09-10 10:46:28 · update #1
No. Not that harsh, but quality quiet time with God is essential.
2007-09-10 10:56:31 · update #2
If people are truly Christians and want to attend church for worship, they should be more respectful to their Lord and to those around them...arrive in a timely fashion and truly give their attention to the reason why they are there. Otherwise, it seems rather silly to go just for appearance's sake. While I could understand exceptions for some professionals who are out there risking their lives or saving the lives of others, and I am sure God would smile upon the firefighters, doctors, veterinarians and others who are called upon during their time of worship to go to the assistance of others. Otherwise, those without emergency reasons to leave a service, be late in arrival, etc., should be respectful or not attend at all.
2007-09-10 11:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by JenV 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you about the behavior of people coming into church. I also arrive early for Mass to pray and to get ready for the service.
I am amazed at the number of people who arrive late -- and it's the same people every time!
Some bring their kids who get restless 15 minutes into the service. I know they are kids, but the parents should bring more things to keep them occupied.
Some people come because they are "supposed" to attend church every Sunday. But,they are probably not getting much out of it. They should quit going or find another church where they would get more out of the service.
My advice, suggestion: try not to let it bother you. These people are not going to change and you will just become more upset. Concentrate on your visit and move if you have to. You can always try another Mass or try another church with services that fit your schedule.
Good luck.
2007-09-10 12:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't get offended, I get annoyed.
Late-comers should make themselves as inconspicuous as possible.
As for other behaviors, grooming (unless it is an "emergency" touch up) should be done at home. If one is participating in the distribution of the Eucharist, certainly one's hands should be washed prior to the service. My father was always so particular when he was scheduled to be Elder. And he manicured his nails the night before.
Unfortunately, the solemnity of church has been "invaded" by modern "life." I think it really started in the 1970's when the "modern" liturgies and "folk" services came on the scene. One of their unforseen consequences was the "spill over" of lackadaisical behavior into the "higher" liturgy service.
But this "loose" attitude... "informal?" ... has spilled out to all sorts of previously SOLEMN ceremonies, like graduations, weddings, even funerals. Mores the pity!
Have a polite day!
2007-09-10 11:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by wyomugs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I personaly hate going to church and think the whole idea of it is silly. But I respect those who do like it and believe in it, so when I find myself in church I do my best to be quiet and pay attention. I would expect no less from anybody else, especially those who attend mass on a weekly basis.
I have to admit, I try to find anything to amuse me or distract me during church, so the "loud" people or people who are doing funny things amuse and not offend me. But I can understand how that would be frustrating and disrespectful to someone who is a regular worshipper. I think it comes down to one word: respect. In today's culture I find that that word has lost a lot of its meaning.
2007-09-10 10:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to read the part in the bible about not judging others. What they are doing in church is none of your business. You should be there for God. If it bothers you when people come in later, sit in the middle of the pew so nobody has to step around you. You are supposed to be at church for personal spiritual growth. If you are so into your prayer and holy-time, like you say you are, then you wouldn't notice what other people are doing.
2007-09-10 10:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think it's wonderful that you want to have quiet time to meditate and enjoy a sacred experience. I will just add that Jesus never refused people who wanted to come to Him. Hopefully you'll be able to see these people as fellow worshippers who want to come closer to God and are trying to come to church, like you.
2007-09-10 11:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by drshorty 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you should smite these heathens, and cleave their heads asunder so the glory of the Lord can shine DIRECTLY onto their brains.
2007-09-10 10:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
FIRST OFF IF YOU ARE REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT GOING TO CHURCH, YOU WILL GET THERE IN TIME. AND IF YOU ARE LATE THEN TAKE A SEAT IN THE BACK.
IF YOU ARE WORSHIPPING GOD THEN YOU WON'T NOTICE WHO IS LATE.
2007-09-10 11:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by gertrude k 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋