im so confused my ex told me he needed to talk to me at the rodeo so i walked with him and when i did we ended up making out then he asked me out so then he was grabbing my waist and kissing me and it turned into him rubbing my back to him trying to undo my bra i kept telling him to stop but he wouldnt listen then he kept telling me to flash him and when i kept saying no he would reply "quit being like that" then he said lets go have sex by the trees and weeds over there and i said no then he said "why do u have to be like this, im so horny." so then he started pushing me against the building and grabbing me tighter and i kept saying come on lets go back to my friends and he said dont worry about them just flash me and have sex with me and u can go back to your friends. so then we went back to my friends and the next day i went to school i was ignored because he loved his ex and then he dumped me for her. what does this mean?
2007-09-10 08:52:29 · 68 answers · asked by britt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no such thing as perfect.
Let's just get that out of the way first.
Secondly, it sounds like this guy really only want's you for your body/sex.
You should not worry about it. You will find one that is closer to perfect sooner than later.
2007-09-10 08:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I have no idea what you are doing with that guy. Having sex with an ex is completely normal, but what is with his attitude in trying to get it?
But to answer your question, there is no such thing as someone that is perfect, male and female alike. Everyone will make you upset and angry at times, its just the way it works. What I recommend you should do is look for someone that is completely different than your ex, and see how it turns out. Thats the best advice I can give.
2007-09-10 09:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by JE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means, quite simply, that you still have a lot of growing up to do.
You need to be more mature and careful in your choice of male friends.
You have to decide for yourself whether or not you want to have sex.
You got to know that for most men sex is first and foremost a physical rather than an emotional need.
You got to know also that the guy felt hurt, frustrated and rejected by your refusal - regardless of your own reasons.
Men can be selfish - like women - so get used to it.
No such thing as a perfect guy or girl.
Grow up!
2007-09-10 09:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Conscience is an open wound... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to be truthful with you, no one is going to have the perfect mate, they might have something close to it but not the real thing. Even if people try to make you think they do, they're just lying and trying to hide something. As far as he goes, he really didn't want you for you. He just wanted sex. I'm saying this truthfully, please don't get upset at me, but that's how he feels. If you would have had sex with him, believe me, he would've treated you different so he could just have more sex with you. I don't know if he's doing this with his ex now, but he's not worth it, so don't feel rejected or anything. There's someone out there for everyone.
2007-09-10 09:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by phazemonultimate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to find the perfect guy because there is no such thing in this day and time. If you just sit back and be patient GOD will bless you with someone who respects you as a WOMAN and not for what you have between your legs.
2007-09-10 09:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. He was obviously just trying to get some. Maybe his ex is easy and will give it up anytime. But you dont need someone like that. He should have some respect and take you to a bed at least.
2007-09-10 09:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by solelone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just a run of bad events
sorry to hear
but believe it or not
there are guys out there interested in other things besides sex
i mean honestly
i think sex is built into every guys brain, and it is always there
but the good guys are those who don't let this interfere with reality
unfortunately, you had a guy that couldn't control his sex brain
there isn't any "perfect" guy
but the near-perfect guy will come along
2007-09-10 08:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that i have found the perfect guy.....
But thats just me.....
I thought that it was hard at first..
until 1 day this screen name popped up on my YAHOO askin me if i would talk to him..
i did...
and weve been dating for a lil over 4 months....
IDK...
i just think that if you give people chances you can learn to like them.....
thats what i did.....
So try and give some people a chance..
ohh..
and some sdvice..
stay away from ur ex.....
srry to say but...
he seems a lil creepy
2007-09-10 08:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it means he's a big fat loser. Don't let anyone treat you that way or push you around. He just wanted one thing from you that night. Move on & forget him.
And the reason it's so hard is because none of them are perfect. No one is, but he's sure on the other end of the spectrum. Don't waste your time on a disrespectful A**hole!
2007-09-10 08:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by buckshotbullies 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
this means that guys a problem and you should stay away from him. nobodies perfect but there should be plenty better than that. Sounds like your in some small town with a rodeo, that's your problem right there.
2007-09-10 09:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋