Parents are being a******s little bro's driving me insane. school is hell! what should i put on the note telling my selfish b******s of parents that im long gone?
2007-09-10 08:42:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh yeah, for sure running away will solve everything! Brilliant idea!
2007-09-10 08:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are concerned about the note means you want them to feel bad or feel punished for your situation. I think though that you will be hurting yourself more unless you have tons of money to take with you. If so then just go and dont worry about the note. But if you do not have tons of $ then would you consider calling your parents and saying that you need to have a very important meeting with them alone? Meanwhile write down what you are going through, what seems unfair and ask them what they can do to help you ? Thats what parents are for. Unfortunately I do not know the details and how bad they are and whether this is a teen age problem or worse. I feel sad for you and just want you to think through the repercussions if you run away. For example if you have to come back for some reason, it may be even MORE difficult. Think smart for right now. Just think for a while about what is the best thing to do. Good Luck
2007-09-10 08:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction was to give you heck about being a whiny baby. Then I erased what I wrote because you are clearly going through a tough time right now and some jerk telling you off won't help anything.
Know what? Teen years are tough. You have an almost adult body but no adult role or responsibilities. You have the desire to make your own decisions but don't really have the experience on which to make good decisions. You want freedom but aren't really ready to handle it.
What you need is an outlet for your frustration. Is there something you really like to do that can help take your mind off how crummy you feel? Something really worthwhile (corny as it sounds) is volunteer work. When you are busy helping others or your community, you start to feel a better sense of self and that conteracts the yucky part of teen yearts.
You'll make it. We all go through this and you'll come out the other side just fine.
2007-09-10 09:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Why go running away?! What you hoping to achieve by doing this?
By running away you cause a whole new heap of problems for yourself ... firstly where are you going to stay etc?
Maybe you running away because you're sick of your parents treating you like a child, but by running away you are being immature as there are many things out there that will harm you and you have the feeling you are invincible to all that.
I know parents can be hell at times but trust me they have their heart in the right place and love you. I know you don't feel that deep down but they do.
Also little brothers and sisters are there to be annoying at times - I understand it can get too much that we feel the only way out is to run away but running away won't solve anything - he will always be your little brother and your mum and dad will always be your mum and dad. You will need them a lot more than you think.
Why not be mature and call for a family meeting and let your parents and brother know how much you are angry with situation and what you been thinking regarding running away.
I bet they will be shocked you feel this way and want to find solutions to resolve issues.
Good luck!
Lx
2007-09-10 08:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by SunshineApple 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think all the previous answers have it in a nutshell. My only suggestion is that YOU DO sit down and seriously write the note. I think in doing so you will realise the full implications and maybe see sense or work out the implications in full. Where am I going? What do I do? What will it mean in the long term? Is it best for MY future?
Beyond DAve
2007-09-10 08:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by 9thwonder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i just recently ran away and I'm 16 running away didn't scared me but after awhile it didn't and my mom did call the cops but they didn't find me and after a week i came back home because my sister told me my mom missed me and bought me a car but i didn't come back home because of the car i came home because she missed me but then on the same day i came back while she was sleeping i packed everything and moved out i am nervous for what the future holds but all i know is I've made this decision and I'm gonna try my best to stick to it you have to consider your future and dropping out and stuff I'm gonna be a high school drop out in two weeks but I'm planning on going back to school when I'm 18. so all I'm trying to say is plan everything out first, I'm still very unsure and unease about my situation but i can't do anything but hope for the best cause after this i cant turn back .... so just take my situation for an example to make sure you really want to do this....
2007-09-11 00:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think running away is going to solve anything, i mean do you have money, are u old enough to get a job, you have a place to go, are u going to be able to buy food and clothes, i mean whats the plan, just run away and live on the streets until u figure out what to do next? u have it made right now, you dont want to know what a bill is, trust me.
2007-09-10 08:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Contessa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know you don't want to hear it mate but running away is the worst thing to do in this situation, try counciling or talking to you parents? Anyway, the police will find you as you will be addressed as missing person, best of luck Jack
2007-09-10 09:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too hasty. You'll be back next week when you realise life is even harder in the outside world. You need to find an adult to talk this over with, imo. Good luck x
2007-09-10 08:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ginny Jin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you think life is hard at home?, well when you outon your on ,you then going to find out what hell is,, now you say school, ishell, well here the deal, with out schoolling, you not going for,, so i say put on the note, be back a 5
2007-09-10 10:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋