ejaculate in their mouth. i find this a discusting thought and won't do it. am i abnormal?
2007-09-10 07:28:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do it if you dont like it. Tell him to lay off and deposit it somewhere else.
2007-09-10 07:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 1⤋
No you are not abnormal and it makes me wonder why your boyfriend is telling you this information. If you asked, then fine. If he's saying it, then he's implying that you are not normal, when you are.
Even if every woman let him do it, it's very likely that a lot of them did not enjoy it and just did it for him.
Personally I think he's not being truthful though! And I also think he sounds like a bit of a prat!!
Get your boyfriend to ejaculate somewhere kinky on your body that he hasn't really tried with other women. He might prefer it!
Some men don't like going down on a woman, just as some women don't like to swallow. There's no such thing as normal. He needs to respect your wishes. I'd never say things to make my boyfriend feel that he should do something to me that he doesn't want to do.
xx Emmie
2007-09-10 07:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're not abnormal, but it is quite a common act. Don't force yourself or let him force you to do something you're not comfortable with. Saying every other girl he's been with let him do it isn't that unbelievable, most girls I know do take a shot in the mouth. If you find yourself considering it, make sure he knows you will definitely not swallow.
2007-09-10 08:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend doesn't have a shred of respect for you. Clearly you told him this wasn't something that you were interested in doing, and instead of him letting it go, he tries to pressure you into it by saying *whiny voice* "All my other girlfriends let me". You stay with him if you want, but I guarantee, this isn't the first time he's tried to make you feel less than and it for damn sure won't be the last, in fact it'll get worse. Lose the loser!
2007-09-10 07:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by grace95838 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is he telling you what other women have done? You're not them. Your also not abnormal. I think it is gross as well and you should not do something you are not comfortable with. Your boyfriend should be considerate and concerned about your feeling than his own sexual gratification. It's not as if he's not getting any sex at all from you.
2007-09-10 07:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not abnormal, you just don't want to do it! Your opinions may change but if he's going on about it to you then it won't make it any better. If he's not then it's ok. Maybe there are some things HE doesn't want to do too. No love you're not abnormal at all.
2007-09-10 07:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by JoJi 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me that either your boyfriend lied to you, or he has hooked up with some really slutty girls in the past. You are normal to not want to do this. The thought is really rather gross. If you feel so strongly about not doing it, don't let him force you into it.
2007-09-10 07:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by kcyesye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not abnormal at all.
Tell him to do it into a glass, and drink it himself!!!
And he says 'every woman' how many has he known?
If he were female he'd be known as the village bike.
;-)
2007-09-10 07:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wellllllll...some women and some wont. Whilst you think it's a disgusting thought others certainly don't. I for one will 'swallow' - but the only one I have done that with is my boyf. who I think is gorgeous. He's definitely the only one I have ever thought of going that far with.
2007-09-10 08:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by greenorlagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's lying of course! But I like it providing the guy doesn't taste too strong and you get an idea from a little precum.
2007-09-10 08:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Stripper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not
ur BF is a sucker..
every woman has her own self respeect n right to decisions....
keeping ur mouth shut for his member doesnt mean ur abnormal
if u were my girl ur place wud b in my heart n ur face shud be kept right there tooo not below my waist..
if every girl he had willed themsleves into letting him stuff their gobs shut.. wel l why isnt he still with either one of all those ... and here???
ask him to go find a zlut if he cant respect ur feeligns..
hes just a prick n nuthin else leave him for a better person damsel...
2007-09-10 07:48:31 · answer #11 · answered by djsinging2k2 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋