cops im 14 and need help!!! PLEASE?

Question

im 14 and need help plz answer my ? okay just so you know im not a bad kid i just get in a lot of trouble...i am currently on releasing conditions of my probation for runaway and unruly child and i recently got kicked out of school for 2 counts of assault and b4 i get completely off of probation and my releasing conditions my probation officer is going to see how my behavior has been well it hasnt been good at all kicked out of school for 2 counts of assault and cussing at a teacher and threatening a student...what will my consequences be?

Answer 1

You will hopeful get punished so that you will learn your lesson.

Answer 2

Hi and good morning...I'm not a police officer but my son had been in trouble off/on throughout his teen years due to his attitude and behavior. So maybe I can help. Depending on the state that you reside...some laws/rules for probation are different. Some are more strict than others. In Illinois, the court system where I live try to help the child or teen before sending them to a juvenile detention unit. The courts try to work with the parents and the teen. Now my son had been on a Strict Probation to where it's more closely watched than just 'supervision' or regular 'probation'. If he had not followed the rules precisely, then his next step would have been the juvenile detention unit. Your probation officer wants to see how you improve while you are on probation. If he does not see any improvement and you defy the rules that were laid down for your probation, then there is the possibility that the court will place you in the Juvenile Detention Program/Center. Now unfortunately you had stated that during this period of your probation, you had been 'kicked' out of school for 2 counts of assault and cussing out a teacher and not too mention threatening a fellow student. This is not appropriate behavior for a 14 yr. old. Were you charged for these assaults? If so, then these are considered 'black marks' on your probation record. I am guessing here but depending on how many 'marks' you have against you and the severity on the assaults will determine your fate in the courts. The Judge could either give you another chance and place you on a more strict probation and possibly 'community service' or he will send you directly to a Juvenile Detention Center. Not to lecture you but you need to try to correct your behavior and attitude or you will be jumping from one Juvenile Detention Center to another. Try to control your actions when it comes to certain individuals. I hate to see a good kid become the ward of the court system. Good luck in your situation, take care and God Bless.

Answer 3

You are going down a road that in a few years will end with a steep drop off a cliff.

If you keep this up, you are going to find yourself doing time in a Max security prison. You may not think you are a bad kid, but you have already shown me two things in your post.

1. You have a propensity towards violence
2. You will not accept responsibility for your actions.

Kid, you are 14, there a prisons filled with lifers with stories like yours who found at age 18 they suddenly are tried like an adult, 21 committed their first felony that got them hard time and by 30 are serving life.

If you want to change your path, and I gotta tell you, it won't be easy, think about what I just said talk to your probation officer and ask for help. Take what ever help you get, and take it seriously, even if you don't agree with it.

This may sound cold and hard, but after 20 years in corrections and law enforcement, it is almost too late for you kid, in fact it may already be too late, you need to make changes now or get used to being locked up.

I may seem like an A@#$%^&, but I am talking from years of experience and telling the truth, you don't need some touchy feely talk right now, you need to know the way it really is, I hope you can turn yourself around, but always remember, it is up to you, not the system, take personal responsibility and realize there are concequences (good and bad) for everything you do

Answer 4

You are not a bad kid , but it sounds like your behavior has been very bad. You need a lawyer / child advocate to guide you as far as consequences and how to get out of these situations. Next and more imortant is Why / can you figure out the reason for this ? Do you want to live your life in / out of jails / have records ? Or would you rather have a nice family, take vacations , enjoy friends / hobbys ? Or deal with this obnoxious law system ? Make a decision and change. If you need counseling / then get it / get all that you need to figure out why you act out . You should be preparing for your future, volunteering , studying , having experiences with your friends / learning responsibility / earning a little money and figuring out what your job career will be. That is far more important than cussing out a teacher. Please try not to think I'm talking down to you / please take this advice as honest and straight forward. Life is long ... think of the long term / not short term. Agree ? Good Luck to you.

Answer 5

Bulls*** you're not a bad kid.Pull your head out of your unruly *** and straighten up.After two counts of assault and getting kicked out of school you will get your original sentence plus whatever the courts decide to do with you on the assault charges.You can probably bet on being in a juvenile detention center until your eighteen.Probation is a second chance from the court to keep you out of jail and you blew it.I've screwed up in life too but you have got to get it together before you end up spending the majority of your life in prison or someone kills you.

Answer 6

Instead of worrying about the consequences, maybe you should think about how you can begin to take control of yourself and begin acting like a responsible young adult. I am sure there are lots and lots of things that you feel cause you to act the way you do, and the reality is, most of the time life isn't fair and you don't get what you want, so do you want to mess up you're whole life because you are pissed off, not happy, or not getting your way? Why do you think you continue to do the same thing expecting different results? Sounds to me that you could use someone to talk to - someone you can trust - someone that can tell you the truth about your behavior and you will listen to them instead of acting all tough and like you know it all... Take it from someone who has be there, in a few years you are going to be sorry for all the crap you did, if you are still alive...
You and your family are in my thoughts & I wish you the best of luck...

Answer 7

I think that you need to show that you are sorry now by turning your act around. Your chances are not looking good and you know that. This sounds more like a concerned parent asking the question than a child. If so its the parent then you have to let things take their course.
If it is really a concerned child then i think that it is not too late but you really will need to change things and show that you mean it. I know its hard at school but even if it means having no friends for a while you need to just put your head down. Apologise to the school and ask them to take you back but you must be sincere. show the people that you have got it in you to be good. im sure you will grow up to be a lovely man but for now just take one day at a time. Good luck.ive been there

Answer 8

Worst case is that you will go to the Juvenile Detention Center for your area for a majority of your sentence. They have school there year round.

Or you may be sent to a juvenile detention boot camp.

Or you will have to be home schooled with an ankle monitor on you.

It doesn't look too good.

Answer 9

Seems to me you are an unruly child that needed a good spanking for quite some time. Well since you didn't get that spanking it looks like the government will have to step in and do it. :/

Answer 10

First it form of feels which you at the instant are not as mature as some think of U are. 2d U could desire to take the duty to your strikes. third U at the instant are not the only one in touch with this determination. sixteen or 14 which ever you're, ask your self what are you able to do without help from others and the alternative could desire to be clean.

Answer 11

You cannot go around assaulting people.
Sooner or later you'll assault the wrong person and they'll beat the hell out of you.
If you assault someone you'll be arrested and go to court and possably jail.
It is *MUCH EASIER* to be nice to people!