I went round a fellas house that im sort of seeing and while he was upstairs asleep (as he was drunk) i went downstairs and got chatting to his dad being polite as i had only just met him and as this conversation went on his dad came forward to kiss me. i told him i didnt want to do that and he said "its not as it your with him" which i replied im not like that. and he asked me to keep it a secret.
so do you think i should tell the boy im seeing or leave it?
2007-09-10 03:37:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what his dad did and more than likely you will realise that he has done this before! If you think about it, staying with this guy would be okay if his dad wasn't around, now what are the chances that he will tell his dad to hop it? Little to none! You need to think long and hard about what you want, if its him then his dad will be there, and believe me that won't be the last time.
I know its hard, but you need to weigh up the pro's and cons. If you BFs reaction tells you that the father has done it before then you probably want to run a mile. If he doesnt believe you then I would end it there!
2007-09-10 03:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the whole family is unhealthy and not good people to hang around.
How can your boyfriend be drunk? what time was it?
And the fact that his dad made a pass at you possibly means that the type of girls this guy you're seeing likes are tarts.
So, I think that if I were you, I'd leave and never go back to the house or to see this guy again.
If you keep that a secret, then the dad may one day use it against you. You know how some people manage to turn the table around?
If you say something, what's going to happen between this guy and his dad? And what if he doesn't see any problem with his dad kissing you?
I'd definitely leave them and try and find someone who's worth my time! Plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-09-10 03:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be with him for along time you need to tell him.
Always remeber this: tell the truth because no matter how bad it will alway set you free. It may mess up the father and son relationship for a little while but that is something that they have to deal with. let him know how you feel
2007-09-10 03:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by oladipodo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would tell him as he has the right to know!! I think you should avoid visiting his house too so that way you won't have more problems with the dad!! Good luck!
2007-09-10 03:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to leave this situation all together. This boy is drunk and his father is making passes at you.
If I said anything to anyone it would be telling my parents.
2007-09-10 03:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, he needs to know how his dad is, chances are he already knows how his dad is, plus that with give your boyfriend more reasons to trust him. In a relationship you should be totally honest anyways.
2007-09-10 03:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by bonnielynn73 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave it. His father would undoubtedly lie and tell him you made it up. Id also leave the guy you are sort of seeing, it doesn't seem as if he comes from a nice family.
2007-09-10 03:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your boyfriend but you need to know that it could cause alot of argument's. If you keep it quiet his dad could do it again.It's not your fault or the lad who you are with.
2007-09-10 03:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy, then I would tell him now & not wait until things get seroius for him to find out b/c then he will not trust you!
2007-09-10 03:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u better stay away from that nasty dad( no offence), dont go to his place next time, and best is to keep it to urself as he will nomore have respect for his dad, which aint good at all..
2007-09-10 03:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by will u answer me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋