what do u think the propre way to say it to my mom?
2007-09-09 23:05:49 · 11 answers · asked by anj 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Some will depend on your age and whether there is room for him to stay there. Don't assume he will be able to stay in your room!
When I was 19, my mother actually invited my boyfriend from another state to come and stay with us for a few weeks, and even paid for his transportation. The assumption was that he would stay in the guest room, of course. :)
2007-09-09 23:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by RayeKaye 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I remember whilst my mom advised me no yet at night whilst it had have been given dark I went down stairs to get foodstuff and beverages to put in my room and then I advised my boyfriend to craw on the tree and are available in my window to get in.
2016-10-04 07:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by vaden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's proper for you to ask, I don't think it is proper for your mother to say yes, but that is your family business. Don't be coy when asking Mom, just ask, and don't leave out any details like how long he's staying, whether he'll have money for his own food, whether he drinks or uses drugs, etc.
2007-09-10 01:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how old you are. If you are of age your mom would have her head buried in the sand to think you aren't doing anything. Personally if you are of age, I'd let him stay.
2007-09-10 19:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your ages. My grandmothers rule was no boys upstairs (where the bedrooms were). My mom just asked that we not have sex in the house (was 23 then).
2007-09-11 02:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by jalopina98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mom and I don't want my daughter to ask me that. He will have to stay in a hotel or his friend's place. Unless you are engaged to be married, it's best not to ask.
2007-09-10 04:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how old you are and what the sleeping arrangements would be, just ask her like uh mom my bf is coming and i was wondering shoukd we find hima hotel or could he stay here? all she can say is no
2007-09-09 23:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by mz bozzy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are both of you? How far away does he live? Do your parents like him? Do you show responsibility in the things you do (chores, phone, etc)?
Talk to her.
2007-09-10 03:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her if you want to gain and retain her trust. Oh and be prepared for a million Q's from her!
2007-09-09 23:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-09-10 03:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋