I'm a divorced male. I can't seem to meet a nice girl that isn't out for something...money for example. I would even relocate for the right one! Any females want to chat, IM or email? Picture available on request.
2007-09-09 18:28:35 · 8 answers · asked by indyfaninark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are probably looking in all the wrong places and finding girls that want to use you for what you have.
2007-09-09 18:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should try and find a self-sufficient woman. Sounds like you are still stinging from the divorce. All my friends are around 38. Most of them are married. They spend hours each day thinking about ways to make their relationships better, doing stuff for their husbands, taking care of life. Most women spend way more time thinking about relationships then most men. Some women do worry about a guy having money, but they are the ones that are dependent on a man financially.
I myself never worried about it because I can take care of myself financially. I could have married a millionaire 10 years ago, but I chose my husband instead because he made me happy and was better suited to me. We both want the same things in life.
Everybody is looking for something when seeing other people. I want someone who makes my life better, who will share life's experiences with me. Some people want other things. You probably want something from the girl you're dating.
There are tons of nice girls around, just walk down the street, and stay away from the bars.
2007-09-09 18:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mellie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think this is the right place to look for dating or chatting. Have a nice day :)
2007-09-09 18:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brother feels the same....long story
Relax......join a group, form a group, ...........go for a walk...........get a dog.........go to a gym, library, pool hot tub, it's the best way to meet people.
Just don't get sad and sit on the computer all the time.
2007-09-09 18:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Carole H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there out there but you got to weed them out and find the ones thats not after what you can give them or what you have.like you i think that about men.i'm a widow and looking for a man that has the same qualities as my husband did and believe me thats going to be tough but i'm hopeful.good luck.
2007-09-09 18:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are looking at women half your age, you are probably right. If you are looking for women that are older and wiser, you just aren't looking in the right places!!
2007-09-09 18:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THIS IS NOT WHERE YOU WANT TO MEET GIRLS ,TRY GOING TO PLACES THAT YOU REALLY ENJOY 'DANCES ,CHURCH, SOCIAL GATHERINGS,PARTY'S AND SUCH THERE ARE MANY NICE WOMEN STILL OUT THERE ,WONDERING WHERE ALL THE DECENT MEN HAVE GONE.
2007-09-09 18:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're looking at the wrong way or sending out the wrong signals. =) there are lots of nice girls out there.
2007-09-09 18:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Grampa Hann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋