I dated this girl for a little over three months and we both shared alot about each other. She also brought up things about how if we had children together they would be cute kids, and stuff about living together. She also shared that noone that she has dated in the past 3 years has met her parents. I had the oppurtunity to meet them, and spend the weekend with her family. They really liked me, asked when i was coming back. A week later her atitude changes comepletely, she becomes distant. I tried to communicate with her to find out what was going on, but she would not talk about it. She ended up breaking up with me 3 weeks later. Saying her feelings were not on the same level as mine.
Two weeks after we broke up I invited her to watch a football game for a team we both like. She did meet me at the bar for the game, and we talked all night, like nothing happened, laughing, and making good conversation.
Needless to say I am abit confused by everything.
2007-09-09 18:20:08 · 14 answers · asked by synapse120 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like she's scared of finding someone she can possibly spend the rest of her life with. just let her know that you're there for her and that you care for her (if you do) and let her know that you're scared too and that you want to be there to work through this fear and overcome it together so the two of you can have a chance at a forever kind of relationship.
2007-09-09 18:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by candace b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she found someone else, but that they don't want to be with her, or haven't broken off their previous relationship. Why make things so complicated, if she still goes out with you and you both still enjoy eachothers company, then what is the problem with that.
2007-09-09 19:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but I think you fell into the friend zone. Not the worst that could happen. Enjoy her friendship unless you cant handle it, then let her know. Good Luck
2007-09-09 18:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Eddie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 07:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost,don't pour all your love to her.Go on with the flow,as a friend!Being a good friend,she might tell you the thruth why she drop you then met you in your invitation.Just be patient.Goodluck!
2007-09-09 18:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm....
Well either she's just one of those girls who doesn't like incredible men in her life...
OR
She met someone else and is trying to let you down easy.
You're a smart guy, what do you think?
2007-09-09 18:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been the girl in that situation before... maybe she honestly didnt know what she wanted... maybe she was scared things were moving too fast. give her time... maybe she will come back... but it might take a while if you are willing to wait around
2007-09-09 18:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by jenhicks87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just leading you on, in my opinion. I had girl do that to me. And, I ended up chasing her for a year, just to get dumped and cheated on.
Not worth it. Find someone else.
2007-09-09 18:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jesse H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her behavior is spastic. Is this the girl with whom you want to spend the rest of your life? I think not. Time to end it.
2007-09-09 18:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she is having second thoughts because mom and dad like you.
2007-09-09 18:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋