Me and my girlfriend got into a spat because she added her ex onto our joint myspace account, I simply asked her why and she responded "I DunnO" several times. Then she turned the tables on me about old stuff, that had ceased. I got a text from a female friend saying "I miss you" and I responded "I miss you too" and one of my friends GFs sent me her prom pics(with her bf). I told both girls to never contactme again. This was several months ago. Does she have the right to use this gainst me now, or is she just weaseling out of the situation?
2007-09-09 18:15:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks like she is growing out of the relationship.dont take ur gal for granted if u really love her. give her more time and attention, she has indirectly asked for it. do same damage control asap, take her to a romantic dinner,give her compliments, flowers, tell her how important she is to u.
all this if u really want her back.ya she should not use past against u,but she just being defensive coz she feels guilty.
and right now if u wanna save ur relationship dont fight with her and blame her. right now she needs ur love and attention the most.
2007-09-09 18:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by puppet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't think any relationship should be how much ammunition a person has on the other. People have to forgive and forget, If she didn't like you doing this then it didn't give her the right to do it also. I believe she was in the wrong on this one. Because if this continues then it will be back and forth to infinity or the resolution of the relationship.
2007-09-09 18:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me, she's just trying to bring up the old because she knew her mistake. But, fighting about old stuff is pointless. It happened already. There's nothing you can do about it.
What you should do, is drop the myspace account. Delete it, nd never go back. Myspace causes nothing but problems for relationships.
2007-09-09 18:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jesse H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should bring up old stuff, I think she is just trying to show you how it feels to bring up old stuff. Ask her if you can hit the reset button and you guys should really stop this because it is not healthy for your relationship. Next you guys will start asking each other who your best in bed was. Good Luck
2007-09-09 18:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Eddie C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two have trust issues on both ends of this relationship. Try and work on building the trust instead of pointing fingers at each other.
2007-09-09 18:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Suburban Mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's weaseling out. No way should her ex be added to your JOINT account. Something's up, bruh.
2007-09-09 18:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's weaseling out of the situation but is it really a big deal that she is friends with her ex...if it's not anything more than friends?
2007-09-09 18:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by candace b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's the problem, she may be insecure, and for some people that make deep connections that never break. and even though she's still talking to him, she's with you, and the only reason she's bringing up the stuff with your ex's, is that it made her insecure.
2007-09-09 18:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're old things that are over, she shouldn't have rehashed them. She needs a better response than "I dunno", such as "we don't like each other any more, but we're still friends." I don't think either one of you were wrong...and two rights down make a wrong!
2007-09-09 18:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither one of you are mature enough for a relationship.
2007-09-09 18:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by FRANKFUSS 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋