My bf has recently come to the conclusion that his son is a bit spoiled (it's true-he is). He's never had to do chores before for his allowance, and we'd like to introduce some. What are some good ones that a 7 year old can handle, and what are some tips regarding easing the transition?
2007-09-09 17:31:45 · 14 answers · asked by Priscilla B 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Hi make it fun tell him if he does he's chores he will get his allowance and when he does do them give him heaps of encouragement and praise as this can mean more to a child then the money.
Here are some things he could do.....
* Pack and unpack the dishwasher (don't get him to do the cutlery container as he still might cut himself)
* Set and clear the table
* Sort the laundry in to piles eg. whites and dirks
* Water the yard
* Feed the animals
* Clean his room
* help with dinner preparation
* Help wash the car with you.
I'd set up a calender that states what he needs to do every day eg. Monday set and clear the table, Tuesday pack and unpack the dishwasher etc. This way it's not the same task everyday so he won't get bored and he learns some life skills as well.
2007-09-09 17:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by finabella9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, my seven year old is an excellent worker. She carries in the groceries, takes the dog outside, empties the dishwasher, gives the cats food and water, cleans her hamsters cage (the pet chores she deosn't get paid for, pets are privedge). My daughter has such a good work ethic that she will put her own bike in the van (how she manages I dont' know) to go to the park.. she will come in and say that she packed it! She takes out the garbages and stuff and occasionally I will let her clean the bathroom. Other than pets chores, I try to have her do about 2 chores a day. She has such a great attitude, I think it is because she feels useful and apart of the family and she contributes
2007-09-09 17:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Making their bed is definitely a first. Try helping them with the chore first. Toss the sheet up in the air to land on the bed together, help them tuck corners, fluff the pillows, etc. Cleaning their room is also good. They don't have to use the vacuum or anything, but they should pick up their toys and such. When I was little I had a "Clean-up Clock" like from the show Barney. It's simply a kitchen timer and you set it for a few minutes and the child tries to beat the clock and clean up their things. Chores should be fun and a learning experience for young kids or they lose interest quickly. He can help his dad take out the trash sometimes too, but this is all in moderation.
2007-09-09 17:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by MystiqueSerenity 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him that he needs to learn to be responsible for his belongings. Keeping his room clean (Put a hamper and a garbage can in there to make it easier), Clearing the table after meals, and picking up toys around the house are a good start. Tell him if he can do his chores without whining that he will get an additional $2 a week.
2007-09-09 17:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Star charts are good, it makes the chore something he actually wants to do rather than it being a 'chore'. Ask him what he thinks would be a good job for him to do, make them simple. My kids jobs are: opening up the curtains in the morning and closing at night. Making their bed. Just start with a couple until they become a habit and then you can add new ones in place of the others. Good luck.
2007-09-09 17:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I started a chore chart. Every time the chore is finished, it get marked off. I started with small things like the trash, taking the laundry to the laundry room, dishes, cleaning their room.
2007-09-09 18:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by pj28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being a parent myself and a daughter to one of the toughest people i know... chores are a good start to establishing a well rounded respect for money and how to earn it. i started with simple things like after they eat place the dishes in the sink... vaccum the living room( make sure there is nothing breakable) clean their rooms (everything off the floor and in its place) help with dishes (put them in the washer) bring the laundry to the washer... there are many simple things a child can do that can help you and make them feel like they arent having to be cinderella in their own home. as far as easing them in... if the child is spoiled it might be tough... but you also have to be tougher (not giving in when they want something make them earn it!)
2007-09-09 17:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clean his room. Set the table for dinner. Clear the table after dinner. Help with washing the dishes or putting the dishes in the dishwasher. Pull weeds in the garden or sidewalks cracks. Collect the trash on trash night- he empties all the trash in the wastecans into one bag. I wouldn't say let him take it out without supervision though. He can dust furniture with a plain rag or duster.
2007-09-09 17:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Suburban Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my 8 year old brings the rubbish in empties dish washer feeds the dog . cleaning there room putting clothes away picking up toys they shouldn't get paid for they are just jobs they have to do ,we have a chart on the fridge of the chores they tick them of when done if not done they lose a percentage of there pocket money
2007-09-09 17:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making his own bed, keeping his room clutter free. Even taking the garbage out. Even helping clear the table after dinner, or drying dishes. Introduce him to sweeping the floor, even if it is not as good as you would do, but teach him to earn his allowance.
2007-09-12 08:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋