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I have always loved the peacful lifestyles of the buddist. I find that Im constantly stressed and searching for happiness. My family relgion dosent seem to help me find peace! Buddhism is the only answer I can find. What should I do and Is there a book to get me started?

2007-09-09 17:15:56 · 8 answers · asked by missflexgr 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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The unity of all religions by Idres Shah

2007-09-09 17:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Commandant Marcos 4 · 0 1

In order to become Buddhist, one first must take refuge in the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, (the teacher, the teachings, and the community). If you happen to attend a teaching by His Holiness, refuge is given at the end of the teaching to all present. Also, you should look at exploring what sect you would like to join. As someone mentioned before, there are four main sects, but there is also a movement, known as Rime, which includes teachings from all sects. It is considered to be a reinstatement of the earliest form of Tibetan Buddhism.

Someone else urged you to look into joining the New Kadampa Tradition. As someone who lives in Tibet, among Tibetans, I would suggest you not do this. The NKT is not well-favored among most Tibetans. Knowledge can never hurt, but participating in a tradition that is not only controversial but also linked with some unpleasant conflict, is probably not the best idea for someone just getting started in a particular faith.

Also, take your time in choosing a teacher or teachers. It can be difficult if you live in the States, where Dharma centers can be difficult to locate or to attend, and where teachers come maybe once or twice a year. I understand it is easier in Europe, and of course in India. However, there is a lot of internet research you can do to locate teachers. Many have schedules posted online and e-mail addresses. Remember, this is a very personal thing, and you should know the facts before making decisions.

A good, though rather detailed book, about Tibetan Buddhism is "Religions of Tibet" by Guiseppe Tucci. It is a staple for people in the field of Tibetan Studies. Also, a decent book is, "An Introduction to Tibetan Buddhism" by John Powers, another foundational book for people in Tibetan Studies.

Good luck.

2007-09-11 14:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by micha_b3 2 · 0 0

As a beginner, you can start going to a Buddhist Centre to attend some basic Buddhist Course, Meditation for beginner, attending study group...etc...
When you feel comfortable with the religion, and is sure that you wish to have your spiritual development in this religion, then you can take refuge from a qualified teacher.

Tibetan Buddhist there are 4 sect: Nyingma, shakya, Karyu, Gelugpa, the teaching of philosophy are varies but the goal of obtain full enlightenment is the same for all school.
Below are some website you can get more info about the different sect.

2007-09-09 17:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by dora_chan 3 · 2 0

Dora_Chan - has provided you with an excellent answer. As a practicing Buddhist, would like to share a bit more information which may be helpful for you.

Walking the Noble Eightfold Path of The Buddha is a daily-moment by moment walk of presence, compassion, loving-kindness, and mindfulness.
*There are a many excellent books out to get you started such as "Open Heart, Clear Mind" by: Thubten Chodron; other Excellent books are "Eight Mindful Steps to Happiness" by: Henepola Gunaratana and "Loving-kindness: the Revolutionary Art of Happiness" By: Sharon Salzberg and also "Peaceful Dwelling: Meditations for Healing and Living." By: Madeline Ko-I Bastis. *Since this is the path of your choice, would recommend you visit a Buddhist Temple to find a teacher to help you in your walk of the Noble Eightfold Path.
http://www.buddhanet.net/ is a good source to find a temple in your area.

*Metta {loving-kindness; loving-friendliness) to all.

2007-09-09 17:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by McLeod 3 · 2 0

My reply to you is that you could start by doing search on New Kamdapa Traditions (NKT), where clear and concise Tibetean Teachings are taught by Lord TsongKhaPa, the founder of the Yellow sect. Books like LamRim (Stages of path to gradual Enlightenment) or Liberation In the palm of your hand by Je PhabongKha will give you a very good start for studying Buddhism. Cos all the Buddha's 84000 teachings are found within its essence. You may like to seek out yourself the nearest NKT center near your premises by seacrhing on website.

2007-09-10 05:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lightning Blue 2 · 0 2

Buddhanet - worldwide Buddhist information and education network

http://www.buddhanet.net/

Basic Buddhism Guide

http://www.buddhanet.net/e-learning/basic-guide.htm

2007-09-09 22:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by wb 6 · 0 0

Lama Surya Das is a western Buddhist in the Tibetan tradition, and His books are excellent. Also any book by the "Dalai Lama"

2007-09-09 17:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 0 1

you have to contact any buddhist center in your area.. and to try to find the buddhism from this region..

2007-09-09 17:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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