O.k. heres the thing. my sister(20) had a baby, is getting married and moved 2 states away. but for some reason, when my mom went to visit her, she said that I hacked into my dads i-tunes, said I was drunk dialing her, and things in general like that, but when she talks to me, she acts like she hasn't done anything. how should I deal with this? Cause I want to keep things cool with us, but she has repetedly tried/got me in trouble...
2007-09-09 16:17:44 · 8 answers · asked by K B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'd try and talk to her about it. I get the feeling that your sister may be jealous of you somehow, but don't mention this. Just ask her if something's bothering her concerning you, and that she should be able to talk to you about it if there is. If she claims nothing is wrong, try and bring it to one of your parents' attention (it'll work better if you talk to the one who you can talk to easily or who you know will help you).
You never know, this might even be your sister's way of letting you know that she misses you (though she has an odd way of showing it).
2007-09-09 16:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-05 08:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by langill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure a mess when sibs do not get along and use the parent as a ping pong ball.
The problem is that the more you say the worse it will get. It is not easy but just keep your mouth shut about your sister. Like you do not know who she is. Especialy when talking to your mother. Never tell your mother what you ahd your sister talk about.
It is ok to listen to your mother out of respect only though. No need to answer any of her questions abut this matter.
Same in my family and there are six of us. I am the only one that can talk to all of the other five. I never tell one what another has said or done. I listen and rememvber much but that is where it stops for me.
2007-09-09 16:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is a bored drama queen. You need to spell this out to your mother. Point out the fallacies.
You cannot "hack" into any on-line account without the password, so that doesn't make any sense.
Drunk dialing? At least show the phone record with calls consistent with late night drunk-dialing.
Make her prove every allegation!
You need to call your sister out on this crud and let her know that TWO can play at that game! Can you say "CPS"?
2007-09-09 17:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels inadequate, especially if she had a baby before she got married. Maybe she wants to make you look like the "bad" daughter so she won't.
How to deal with this? Hmmm...just do not give her any ammunition. Be the better person here. If she continues, talk to your mother. Make your sister PROVE the wrongdoings that is accusing you of....
Good luck with this one....family is family.
2007-09-09 16:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by acksherly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people do things just to get attention. try just being fiends with her and not talking about anything she does not tell you personally. you may want to ask all family members not to tell you what she says. it's the best way to stop the "he said, she said"
2007-09-09 16:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by retire2day2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be straight with her. Ask her why she does this. Tell her you don't like this and why. Tell her that you want to be cool with her but if she continues to do this, that you're not going to be so cool with her. Good luck.
2007-09-09 16:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by darlene z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you told us and ask her why she would say things that aren't true. The only thing I can think of is sibling rivalry.
2007-09-09 16:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋