I'm from the USA, and I am just sick of these spoiled, catty girls who think only about themselves and whoever else is privileged enough to be part of their inner-cirlce. Don't they realize they are doing nothing to progress the human race in a positive way, only divide us further based on superficial, trivial things?? I got called a ***** on the train today for no reason at all by one of these girls, and it is not fair because I try my best to show compassion and tolerance to all people.
I want to move somewhere in the world where girls are not this way. Does a place like that exist?
2007-09-09 16:00:17 · 38 answers · asked by xdtsztr 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
To those of you saying to lighten up:
I didn't let the girl offend me or hurt my feelings in any way. In fact, I personally don't give a **** about what she called me. My main concern is not about the girl on the train but that people do not show compassion towards other people and why this is so hurtful society. The world will never progress and stupid, meaningless wars will keep being fought if people don't learn to tolerate other people.
2007-09-09 16:13:33 · update #1
Okay, so I'm 23 years old and not in high school. And I am living in the real world around 'adults' who apparently don't act much better than children. Oh, and I live in a big city right now, but I did grow up in a small town and so I know first hand that girls are like this in urban AND rural places.
2007-09-09 16:52:23 · update #2
i dunno, if there's such a place, but i wish i could find it, maybe in other countries, where the people are worse off, where they have to worry about things such as getting enough water and food to stay alive, such as the the fact that a bomb could drop on them at any second, or that their next step could take them into a land mine, maybe in places like that, they don't bother hating each other for such stupid trivial reasons. but here in america, i guess they don't know what else to do...
2007-09-09 16:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The country actually is the closest you'll get to that. Where I'm from there are those girls but there are other girls...'farm girls' that are more open and don't care about groups or whatever.
Mostly you just need to be someplace that's not big city. Where people are friendlier. Saddly if you're high school age that's going to be hard...it's a known fact that all women hate each other, because they're all trying to win attention of men...as women get older they stop being like that so much and hide their feelings but they never really stop hating each other...that's why mom's and daughters fight all the time.
2007-09-09 16:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's curious how we run things here. The best chance you have of finding girls like that is to find girls who never went to school - that is, girls who are homeschooled.
Homeschooled girls who went to school for a while, and then start homeschooling, have the traits you talk about. Girls who have homeschooled all their lives, don't.
In the USA, so many little kids are put into day care before they are ready to leave their moms, and so their social skills are abysmal, based on a 'lord of the flies' mentality. And, they are shallow and materialistic because they have to believe materialism is important - after all, their mothers declined to raise them to pursue that material stuff.
You don't need to move - just find lifelong homeschoolers. They're not shallow, they're not backstabbers, they're not cliqueish or heirarchical. They didn't have to learn to be to survive.
And, keep in mind, even among the schooled girls, you're not the only one who thinks like you. You just have to stop wanting the approval and acceptance of people you don't respect.
2007-09-09 16:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you obsessing over the state of the sector? Don't do whatever approximately it till you'll be able to recognition on what God needs you to do on your existence. You can do not anything with out religion.
2016-09-05 08:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey --- there is no place like that and it does suck. I KNOW exactly what you are talking about. I don't know how old you are (??) but, for instance, women working with women --- can be hell (except in a few circumstances) -- sometimes you can meet good true friends though so don't get discouraged. Personally, I'd rather work with guys...always was more of a friend with guys all my life and it wasn't as stressful -- women feel threatened by other women.....they can cause other women to lose their jobs and all that crap. I don't understand it either and once asked a similar question.
2007-09-09 16:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I faced similar attitudes in high school, where this kind of behavior is prevalent. These girls feel the need to put others down in order to make themselves look good. If they can hurt you, they're happy. Allow them that success and you feed into their meanness.
In case you didn't notice, girls with high self-esteems don't need to abuse others. They carry themselves with confidence and are not concerned with what small minded little girls think, do, say or wear.
Once you get out of that school, your life begins. They will become merely a bad faded memory.
2007-09-09 16:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Primeau 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was the only male at a work place ,once. You think it's bad for you, imagine how horrible it is for me, with all the backstabbing. I have 8 girls which I have to like better than the other. I end up having to do overtime, because of all the fighting. I don't get paid overtime, which is why I am so ****.
2007-09-09 16:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Sadly, the best place for that possibility is some place so stricken by poverty or disease or war, that survival is the main thought on their minds and who would want to live there just to avoid girls cattiness. For now, just ignore them. They will get their revenge when they grow up and have to live with themselves.
2007-09-09 16:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost every society will have that but if you go into the country people are more down to earth and friendly. I hate cities, I am going to live in a small town in the mountains where there is peace and nice people.
2007-09-09 16:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Next time, just ell 'em to grow up or the only job they'll ever have is dancing on a pole.
I once told some little priss that I made more money in one week than her **** makes in a year and that no one respects her.
Shut her right up.
2007-09-09 16:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋