I have been with my girl for a long time but 3 years ago i met this girl and we hit it off very well.The thing is she is married and i have been with my girl for about 15 years.But i still think of her.And recently seen her myspace.I did agree i wasn't going to see her again but she still on my mind.She told me the last we spoke that she loves me and we did kiss that only one time.I do want to leave her an email on her myspace but i don't want to look like a stalker.She is a fun girl to be with.I don't know what to do.
2007-09-09 15:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you still know the old girl, you'd have to meet up with her eventually. Talk it out and have a final rendezvous. It would be best to meet at a time like... a holiday where you would actually have an excuse to meet with her without looking like a stalker. Don't forget about your current gf since she still loves you and you still love her cuz you've been with her for 15 years....
2007-09-09 15:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by xchipowers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with you? When someone is married......even though they may not be happy or they are the one pursuing the extramarital relationship....surely you should be smart enough or have enough class to not go there. Too many people today just shuck off the part about marriage.
If you can't find a single girl, you should stop looking. There are absolutely tons of single females looking for a great guy! Don't lower yourself and give yourself an ulcer trying to chase after someone who, obviously, is married.
2007-09-09 22:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rick F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does her MySpace say that she is married, single or what?
That should help you decide what you should do.
If she says is married, RUNNNNNNN AWAYYYYYYYYYYYY!
If she SAYS she is single, then she MAY be, BUT do you love your girlfriend? If so, leave the "fun", married woman alone. If you don't love the gf, set her free already...then you will be free to msg this single fun woman. I doubt she would think you are a stalker just by sending a msg.
Remember...a married woman told you she loved you. She also told her hubby that she loved him. To me, she is not to be trusted...
2007-09-09 23:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by acksherly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember the grass is not always greener on the other side.
if you have been with the same girl for 15 yrs that's a lot of time and energy devoted to one relationship. find out how much you still love your gf. and besides the other woman is married don't blow it
2007-09-09 22:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Big B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are your own problem. You've been with someone for fifteen years and she's your "girl"? Sounds like you aren't married. But there's not room in any relationship for three people. The third person isn't available (she's married). Don't be a jerk!
2007-09-09 22:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you think about her because you can't have her? i don't know what to tell you. be careful because you might end up alone at the end. what do you expect from this married girl if you email her? and what about your 15 yrs relationship?
2007-09-09 22:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by s_blagoeva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her..!! she aldy married.im sure u do also dont want some1 crash ur relation wit ur wife!! go on wit ur gurl who had been 15 years in ur life.. imagine if u were in ur gurl position;15 years together,but u still thinkin that gurl.. isnt that hurt for ur gurl..??
2007-09-09 22:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by poetry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow you have a lot of issues!
2007-09-09 22:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by gymnastbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋