weird dreams?

Question

i keep having dreams of my boyfriend of 7 mnths cheating on me and it feels so real, one time i woke up crying. i have them nearly every night. i love him so much and he is such a good boyfriend, whats wrong wid me? is there any site on the net of what dreams mean?

i talk to him all the time about them, i dont think he is because he spends all of his time wid me and when hes not wid me hes texting me i trust him but not fully because i have been hurt in the past.. i hate these dreams its like finding out hes cheated on me every night and it hurts

Answer 1

do you trust him 100%? has he given you any reason to distrust him? Have you been cheated on before? It could be anyone of the things I mentioned. Be honest with yourself when answering these to yourself. Dreams can be upsetting, but there also may be an underlying issue of trust on your behalf. If you can say that you honestly trust him totally, and you have never been cheated on, then I can't say for sure. Do your friends tell you things to make you question him, like put ideas in your head? Just ask yourself. Hope the dreams end for you!!

Answer 2

Even though you love him, he is still just a boyfriend. The relationship may be about how much you love each other, but it's not a very strong relationship. These days relationships are so fragile, the slightest thing will fracture it. You are aware of how fragile your relationship is, but you are more willing to blame your boyfriend instead of yourself, because it's so much easier to balme the other person for your relationship problems, right?
The truth is you still don't trust him even though you claim you do. But more so, you don't trust yourself and you don't trust the stability of your relationship.
You need to 'let him go', mentally. What I mean is, you need to accept the possiblity that you will break up with him someday. You need to accept the idea that you are just as susceptible to making mistakes as your boyfriend. You need to learn how to forgive your boyfriend for the everyday things as much as you need to learn to forgive yourself the everyday mistakes you make. By being able to forgive and let go of your panic, you will quit freaking out.
What you can do is stop trying to get as much emotion out of each moment you are with him and learn how to treat him like he is a human being first, your boyfriend second. Try seeing him as a person, a person with thoughts, ideas, opinions, and interests, and not just your boyfriend and relationship and you are together and isn't it wonderful. By reducing some of that pressure, you will relax and enjoy your time together.

Answer 3

According to Dreamcrowd:

To see your boyfriend in your dream, represents your waking relationship with him and how you feel about him. To dream that your boyfriend is dead, indicates that something in your own Self that is no longer functional and is "dead". You are not being allowed to fully express yourself. It is also symbolic of your own relationship with that person. Perhaps you need to let go of this relationship. If your boyfriend is away and your dreams of him involve a lot of touching, signify how much you miss his presence and have him being nearby. The dream is telling you not to take the day to day things for granted. Learn to cherish the smaller things in life. To dream that your boyfriend tells you that he is gay or that he doesn't love your anymore, represents your own insecurities with the relationship. It may also mean that the relationship is moving to a new level to which you are expressing some anxiety and fears about the changing situation. You may feel left out it in his life or that you are unable to share in all his experiences. It boils down to trust and communication.

To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fianc?, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is actually a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, it is not uncommon for people approaching a wedding to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than their intended spouses. Most likely, such dreams represent the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse. To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship. To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.

Try posting your dream on Dreamcrowd for a free interpretation.

Answer 4

tell him that you have these dreams.. he'll do something for sure.

and dreams are just psychological.. research says that some of them are the things you cant accept, or things you're afraid of.. it doesnt mean anything in psychology but your fears.. so dont worry hunny. thats the only way to get rid of them

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