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My uncle who is in his 50's I believe... looks at porno and buys sex toys on his computer and I asked his little daughter who is like 8 and she said he saw naked ladies on his computer and I went on their computer with his little daughter and his computer had the history and favorites loaded up with porno. He never goes to church and he drinks beer and alcoholic beverages. I really wonder if he is a saved christian or not. He says he is christian but I don't know if he is saved? he cusses when nobody is around and puts on a fake costume by his actions when he is around my family, he acts good around my parents and relatives but he isn't. I wish I could ask him if he is really saved.

2007-09-09 12:44:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

His little daughter was going to show me nickelodeon on the computer and she turned on the monitor and porno crap all appeared at once. I didn't look at it in front of her. I quickly shut it off. It was accidental people

2007-09-09 12:56:45 · update #1

If this makes any difference.. he is a psychologist

2007-09-09 13:00:04 · update #2

27 answers

Was it an accident!

You stated: "I asked his little daughter who is like 8 and she said he had naked ladies on his computer ".
then you went with that child to the computer and : " I went on their computer with his little daughter and his computer had the history and favorites loaded up with porno."

Why would you ask a child about her dad and what he has on his computer. If it is for his eyes only! why would you put that child in the middle of it, and ask her about it as well. and to top it you take her to the computer and turn it on, and look up the history in front of her! What for! You know my dear. We are not that stupid or naive. There are good and bad people in all of us. What makes you think he is not good, and he is only acting! if it is only on the computer, and he doesn't bring home the live version of those porno. That is his problem.

Please, for all that is treasured and holy to you. Don't bring a child into it. If what you say is true. You should keep her away from it, not prob her with questions, and then ask her to show you.

2007-09-09 13:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Soleil 4 · 9 0

Religious notion isn't a sign of intelligence. God calls us however only a few reply the decision. I feel it has extra to do along with your rearing. If you return from a loved ones stuffed with God's love, wherein miracles are popular, you have got an less difficult time accepting the reality. If you arise in a Godless residence, wherein cynicism and disbelief are average, then it could stand to motive that atheism could influence with out external interference. These don't seem to be absolutes. I feel that each person who examines the details with out bias is aware of that it is a designed universe. But they do not know what to do with that data. If they relatively endured at the direction to fact it could influence in self fitting much less primary and the deity assuming that function. It could additionally require ethical alignment that is uncomfortable. This is why we will learn horoscopes and tarot playing cards without a social backlash; they require no ethical difference.

2016-09-05 08:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

What in the world did you ask his daughter that she would reply that he saw naked ladies on his computer?????

And, after you turned off the monitor, you obviously went back and looked at the favorites and history. Why?

2007-09-09 13:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by OPad 4 · 1 0

You know he's a hypocrite. Not because of the drinking or the porn, but because he's a phony around family. If he isn't authentic, then he's not really a Christian either.

On the same hand, it really isn't a Christian's place to judge someone either. Leave him alone, but you can pray for him.

2007-09-09 12:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by mithril 6 · 0 0

You seem to have forgotten middle ground there. A lot of it. An atheist has a belief in absence, a christian has a believe in the judeo-christian god. He may not be christian by your standards, but by his he is. I do think that a look at any one's private life would disgust the world.

2007-09-09 12:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by mist_dark 3 · 1 0

Are atheist and Christian your only two options here? Perhaps he's just not a very good Christian.

Honestly, from what you describe, he's a pretty typical Christian. Most adult Americans, Christian and non-Christian alike, drink, curse, and enjoy pornography. He should be a bit more responsible in protecting his daughter from his adult entertainment, but his behavior is not out of the ordinary for American Christians.

2007-09-09 13:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by marbledog 6 · 1 1

Boy don`t be takin a little girl to look at porn on the Internet! What the hell is wrong with you. In a sense you are no better than he is.
Christianity and Atheism have nothing to do with his behavior. Religion is not the issue here it has no relevance.

2007-09-09 12:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Future 5 · 2 0

By their fruits you will know them. If it talks like a duck, walks like a duck, then in all probability it is a duck. No, he couldn't continue in all that sin if he was a Christian......God wouldn't let him.
I have a larger concern than what's goin' on with uncle.........you should tell your parents, or family about him....he is a walking time bomb for perversion and abuse. Family secrets just destroy the generations coming up. They need to be put out on the table and dealt with.

2007-09-09 12:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Joyful Noise 5 · 1 1

He doesn't sound like a good person to me. Who cares if he is a Christian?
Why is he pretending to be one? Why does he think he has to hide?



The porn is the only thing that concerns me. I am worried about your little cousin.

2007-09-09 12:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by batgirl2good 7 · 2 0

Atheism refers to a belief, not actions, as is the same with Christianity.

2007-09-09 13:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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