There is a particular married Staff Sergeant who continues to IM and email my at this time but not for long wife and they engage in lude unnapropriate behaviour (insert imagination here) the most benign of which is QUOTE : "When I come home for Christmas Im going to be your present and where nothing but a bow" these communications come accross my business network upon which all traffic is captured. Again he is married and I am at this moment attempting to locate his home telephone number to inform his wife whom his comment is "What she doesn't know won't hurt her." Well she will know and I hope it hurts him. Point is I wish to file official charges for Conduct Unbecoming an Officer. I unfortuanately due to health can be nothing more than a civillian but all my fore fathers are retired millitary and I was and still am at heart an Army Brat. Thank you for any factual information you may be able to provide.
2007-09-09 12:39:46 · 12 answers · asked by sonicsoll 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
EDIT: These communications originate from his office while on duty through his millitary email address.
2007-09-09 12:41:48 · update #1
I hope it hurts him
2007-09-13 11:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Conduct Unbecoming Of An Officer
2016-11-06 05:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by gilbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's not an officer.
Before you do anything else, make hard copies of he E-mails with the message headers. Keep an original and a couple of copies. If somebody asks for a copy of the notes, give them a copy of one of the copies.
There are three places you can go.
First, I'd contact the Judge Advocate General for his service.
Second, I'd contact his command his Commanding Officer.
Third, I'd talk to the civilian authorities. You're not on base. Therefore, he has to come off base to get to you. He steps off base, he's in civilian jurisdiction. If he breaks a civilian law, often the military waits until the individual has paid his debt to society, and they punish him for whatever military regulations he's violated.
If you send regular mail, send it certified with a return receipt. If you deliver anything in person, be sure to get a signed receipt... you can create your own... or you can find a form online.
If you send E-mail, be sure to annotate at the bottom "cc: File" and send with a return receipt.
Phone records are hard to keep so, it's best to avoid phone calls except to set up and verify appointments.
2007-09-09 13:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by gugliamo00 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
1. If what you describe is true, he may be violating Article 134 of the Uniformed Code of Military Justice, which prohibits actions which reflect discredit upon the armed forces.
2. He may also face charges for adultery. It's yet another violation of the UCMJ and is defined as unlawful carnal knowledge, although he has yet to commit a sexual act which is needed to prove that offense.
3. Both you and your wife have to be available to testify against him, should military charges be preferred against him.
4. Contact the nearest Marine Corps activity (active or reserve) and ask to speak to their Command Sergeant Major or their Commanding Officer.
5. Block his address in your e-mail system.
2007-09-09 14:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by desertviking_00 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you want it to stop he easiest and quickest thing to do is forward some of his emails to his Commanding Officer and Command Sergeant Major/senior enlisted. You should be able to get that easily since you know what unit he is in from his messages to you. Forward with a note that you do not appreciate it, want it stopped and shouldn't be using official channels to do that.
Telling his wife is your choice and will take longer but could be done after the first; though some wives "know and don't know and like to keep it that way.
2007-09-09 12:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by GunnyC 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
1. Spell check.
2. A Staff Sergeant isn't an officer.
3. You're a civilian? Report any behavior you believe to be illegal to the civil authorities.
4. You don't want e-mail from this clown? Block his address.
2007-09-09 12:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by gunplumber_462 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He is not an officer so those charges would not apply. He is however in violation of Marine Corps Orders so you can file a complaint with the closest Marine Corps installation. Contac thier Legal or PMO office.
2007-09-09 12:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by scubasteve5711 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He is not an officer, so forget that. Contact the Commandant of his duty station and report him. That should be all that is required. The U.C.M.J. has its own pecularities I won't pretend to understand, but he is at least misusing Government facilities if he is using his military e-mail for this purpose.
Let the post Provost Marshal handle it from there. You may be asked for copies of these documents, so make sure you have them.
2007-09-09 12:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Tom K 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
All you need to do is call the base, find out the name of the officer's comander, and forward all of this correspondence to him/her.
After you inform him what his officer is up to, he should take quick action.
If he doesn't, then you ask for HIS commander, and you work your way up the line.
You must, of course, realize your marriage will be over. She will rally to Him, not to you.
2007-09-09 12:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
listen, do yourself a favour and spell check. I guess you could forward the report through a lawyer to the guys CO. that would be your best bet. That's the guy who would lay charges like that. Falls under summary trial.
2007-09-09 12:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Citizen's arrest
2007-09-09 13:08:02 · answer #11 · answered by jwburton3 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋