I know this woman i've been friends with for four years now. When we first met, she really seemed to be interested in more than that. She always waited for me, she always wanted to talk to me, always wanted to hang out, find out more about me, etc. and the way she looked at me -- all the signs were there. Then one day, all the signs disappeared and we just ended up being friends ever since. We talked about how we first met recently and she said she never thought of me as more than a friend, ever. I was a bit confused. Did I have it all wrong in the beginning? Do women just don't like admitting being attracted? or maybe they never knew they were attracted? Just curious if i'm reading the signs wrong.
2007-09-09 12:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by Conalrad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women really prefer that the guy make the first move--while others have no problem in doing so themselves.
Maybe she was truly attracted to you, but in time decided it best to move on.
In the future, if you are attracted to someone who you feel is attracted to you...try asking them to join you for a cup of coffee (or whatever), and do some talking -- get to know them. Good luck.
2007-09-09 12:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem to be a big deal. My first wife never complained and neither does my current wife of several decades. Being bisexual is not a free pass to screw everything that moves, male or female. I've never fooled around on either of my wives. But before I got married, I'd had several long-term gay relationships. That's what makes me bi. I can understand the problem some people might have with this. Since the term bi SEXUAL does stress the SEX part.And that was truer when I was young, single and looking for a good time. Now, it's more like biRELATIONAL.That is, able to have relationships, including sex, with either sex.
2016-03-18 03:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what would her admitting an attraction do for her other than stroke your ego? You obviously weren't interested so she let it drop and moved on. I am amazed that she still is your friend actually. I am not trying to be mean but when a gal sends out signals and the guy just ignores her, she usually quits wasting her time and looks elsewhere.
2007-09-09 12:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... Well, maybe she's waiting for you to say the magic 3 words. That kinda sounds like me. =) Anyways, she was pretty much flirting with you, and wanted you to say "it". However, you never did, and she probably thinks you don't like her in that kind of way or she doesn't like you anymore or she has another dude.
I don't think you were wrong, I think you were right from the beginning.
Yeah... I think shy women don't like admitting they're attracted to their crushes, like me.
2007-09-09 13:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Thao Kun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you may have read the signs wrong. if you liked her, then you probably picked up on every little thing she did that might be a hint. but i am a woman and i do admit to being atracted to guys. its hard to tell without actually seeing that in first person.
2007-09-09 12:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just depends. she could be too shy to tell you. she could not realize that she had feelings for you in the first place. maybe she thought you were into her, so she treated you the same way you treated her. There could be many different reasons why she did the things she did. she could have just wanted a really close friend. let it go. women are confusing sometimes. i get that way sometimes too. there is really no way to read the signs.
2007-09-09 12:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by PeaceandLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the woman. Sometimes they don't want to admit it because they don't want you to think they have feelings for you and ruin a friendship.
2007-09-09 12:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women aren't afraid to admit it, well atleast i'm not...
2007-09-09 12:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Nooonameee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you set the tone for the relationship in the begining as mr.nice guy.If you wanted her you should have dragged her back to your cave in the first month.Now you are seen as a nonsexual interest and forever pidgeon-holed into that category.
2007-09-09 12:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by jwilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do when I want something or someone I'm not afraid to go after it.
2007-09-09 12:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by Noneofyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋