i met a man on holiday we started goin out found out he has ex of 6 years, not a problem but she came bk on the scene for 10 days on holiday he totally left me everynite to go out with her but lied about it, i said if u want her il walk away he said he didnt an when she left he was so mean to me, then i found out i was pregnant, he didnt wana no i came bk to england, then went bk cuz he asked me to. things were bad at first alot of arguments feel like im always living in her shadow but if i ever mention it he gets angry, so i feel like i can never get it of my chest, he wants baby an when things r good there good but most of the time i feel like im compared to her. i just want him to love me he says he does but he still has pictures of her an videos, im bk in england for my scan he lives in turkey, need to no how to move on from my inadequete feelings of worthlessness an like she is the queen?
2007-09-09 11:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by Hannah S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You should be treated better than this. He is stuck with his feelings for her and is not committed to you. You stay where you are. If he really wants you then he will come to you and get rid of all memory of her, pictures, videos or anything else. He can throw them all away and not treat you as a second class person. You should be treated like a queen. If he doesn't want to straighten up, then lean on your friends and they will be there for you and help you with your pregnancy and birth. You don't need him if he is going to be this way to you. Chin up and know you are worth so much better.
2007-09-09 13:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by MaryJean 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are having his baby, but you need to leave him. You should never ever try to compete with the love a man feels for another female. ( If that made any sense). You should not be treated like that especially when you are having a child. You know that there is someone else out there that is going to love you and your child the way that you should be loved and treated. I hope you find what you need and i hope it all works out for you. Congrats on your baby
2007-09-09 13:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really dont deserve to be treated that way. having a baby makes things alot more stressful than they already are things will probably only get worse once the baby arrives. besides your baby doesnt deserve to watch his/her mom to be treated as if they are worthless. leave now and enjoy all of the happiness that your baby will bring you. there are plenty of good men out there that will not care that you have a child, men that will treat you like you are their world, like you deserve to be treated. your existing relationship doesnt sound like an emotionally healthy one in which to raise a child. Good luck with your decision though.
2007-09-09 14:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Faith,RN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say but hes not over her yet. and the fact hes seeing her and probably still talking to her i wish you just go back to england and learn from this sometimes it s hard to compete with an X. its too bad this happened so fast. make him pay child support and get out of here fast so he wont' hurt you hes sounding like a very mean person.
2007-09-12 15:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he's treating you that way. You surely don't deserve it. I wouldn't put up with that, I would leave him. You deserve so much better. I hope everything works out for you. I'm sorry I couldn't be more help. Just do what you have to for your baby and to keep you both safe.
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