This new guy named matt had come into my class.
i have no problem talking to new people or guys.
but i went up to him and i said hi my names crissy and when I asked him his name i struggled to spit it out.
me and this boy have been friends for 3 weeks.
and i really like him I cannot sleep at all.
I always think of him. but just a few days ago i found out 10 other people liked him.
but my bff Sally sais that he likes me all the time....everyone sais he likes me but when i see him he's always giggling with my best friend jess. I think he likes her...
but everyone tells me he likes me.
I'm really jealous right now and i cannot stop thinking about it...
jess. is my best friend and i don't want to yell at her.
but i'm so close too doing so.
i cannot control my jealousy and i need to know how to get this guys attention!
2007-09-09 11:32:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm... Control your jealosy..
Also, he's not "the one". Three weeks isn't an eternity, so stop believing that it is.
Pull yourself out of this hole of stereotypical drama. There are more important things to worry about than this "Matt" guy.
2007-09-09 11:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't take this personally, but you're obviously very young. (I'm 60; to me almost everyone seems young.) So why do you need to have some sort of exclusive thing with Matt? Why not both you and Jess be friends with him, hang out together, maybe with one or two other friends (try to include at least one other boy), and just let things develop slowly?
I know, I know; you're impatient. But seriously, the longer it takes to develop, the better a relationship will be. It will be based on really knowing one another, not just looks or other superficial things, but real character issues, goals and values and interests. Things that matter when you get older.
2007-09-09 18:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get your friend to suss out if he does like you and then ask him out. What have you got to loose. If he says no you will be embarrassed for a few days but just laugh it off. Your friend Jess should cool it with him if she knows you like him what friend does that. If your mate likes a guy you be nice to him but you should never flirt with him she should know that have a chat to her and let her know how you feel.
2007-09-09 18:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by joe.nic3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you never know he might fancy you but just can't pluck up the courage to come and speak to you. Don't yell at your friend because of jealousy. Give it time and he might come and speak to you, but don't be disappointed if he doesn't "there are plenty more fish in the sea" lol.
2007-09-09 18:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Francesca C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Crissy,
Don't yell at your best friend.
Not many people can control their jealousy.
You'll get his attention, just give it time :-)
2007-09-09 18:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Chris Clayton 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you both need to just let him go dont ever let a man get between you and your friends. that can do nothing but harm to yourself. hes not worth a friendship, youve know him for what three weeks and how long have you been friends with this girl? think about it. hes definately not worth it
2007-09-09 18:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl why dont you tell the dude that you like him?
You know why he stays with you best friend?
Because he wants her to prepare the "field" for him with you :)
Got it?Or he maybe wants to make you jealous,thing that seems gives some results :))
2007-09-09 18:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he likes both of u but giggling with ur friend could be his way of hiding the fact that he likes you thats what my boyfiend now acted like then every time i would go to talk to him i went with her he always giggled and laghed with her like i wasnt there because now every time he talks to me he blushes i guess thats what guys do when they like u. btw controll ur green monsterbecause its not healthy to be jelous of too many people and 10 is too many and to get his attension just talk and if giggles with ur friend go alone. and to kno who he really likes just ask him when the time is right
2007-09-09 18:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by purefilipinababy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget the he said (he likes me) and (she says she likes) go talk to him yourself! You can tell how he looks at you and his body language!
2007-09-09 18:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by RoadRunner 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow are you desperate or what? are you really willing to lose your best friend over a guy? hello....?! don't get so stressed out.
2007-09-09 18:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by nacho 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋