my friend told me one of her deepest, darkest secrets! she told me who she likes [she also told me that she has liked him forever!]! the dude is my BF best friend so i know [from my BF] that he likes her!! she talks about him all the time and my BF says that her crush does the same! i don't want to go behind her back and tell him that she likes him but yet i know that she won't do anything about it herself!! PLZ HELP ME!!!
2007-09-09 11:27:47 · 23 answers · asked by khiarapractor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT TELL HIM!!! ok 1st of all, that is something that your friend trusted you with, do not betray her. but you could possibly tell her that he likes her (but only if you BF wasnt sworn to secrecy when his bff told him) lol. yes, it might turn out ok if you go behind her, but she might not tell you important things again, and she might b angry 4 a while. all im saying is that its not your secret to tell, and this is something that she needs to do if she wants to, but do not push her. pleaseeee do not tell!!! its not fair to her.
good luck honey!! i know sm1 who told her bffs crush and they no longer talk 2 eachother. and they never went out cuz she was so angry with her bff for tewlling that she never even gave him a chance. i know from experiance, it will not turn out well!!
2007-09-17 10:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prevail upon her to communicate with this boy. It's obvious that they're interested in each other. It really shouldn't take much to get them started. Invite your friend to a movie with you and have your BF invite his friend to the same showing of the same movie. Start them talking about this or that and let them get together and discover each other. Once the words start, it will hard to remember who actually started the convo.
2007-09-17 18:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by Don C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really the guy's JOB to make the first contact. If he actually likes her, your BF should tell his buddy to ask her out...
or... your BF can suggest the four of you all go out together.
Let the guys take the initiative. Tell your BF to tell his buddy to either ask her out, or go out as a foresome.
2007-09-09 18:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! How often does this happen. Thats great. I deffentally think that you should tell the GUY. But slowly... with the flow, dont rush up and say she likes you. Tell your girl friend after you tell that guy that you told her and that he likes her. Sure she mite feel a little detraied but will thank you in the end.
2007-09-09 18:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a few things I think you could do, you could tell your boyfriend that you want to go out-movies, dinner, whatever, and tell your boyfriend to bring his friend and you bring your friend, then let them figure it out themselves. That way you're not going behind your friends back- you just get them together indirectly!...or next time you all are out say something like "hey y'all look good together," and laugh like you're playing around...
2007-09-09 18:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by #1bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not tell her the news your boyfriend gave you and let her decide if she wants you to mention it to the guy....and if all else fails....get your bf to mention that he over heard it by accident something about her liking him and being to shy to say anything to him ...waitin on him to talk first ...have fun!
2007-09-17 15:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have quite an advantage in that your BF is his best friend too.
as your BF to ask his best friend if he'd ever want her to know he likes her.
you ask her if she'd ever want him to know that she likes him.
see what the answers are...then tell one of 'em...and if neither wants the other to know, then the relationship between them will fail anyway because of secret keeping.
2007-09-09 18:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him. Cause if he likes her then just by hum knowing that she likes him back, he shouldn't hesitate to ask her out. Problem solved
2007-09-16 19:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by kasper777jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to ask her out. That way you would be in the clear on every aspect. You wouldn't be betraying her trust, and she would get the guy she really wants. It's fool proof.
2007-09-09 18:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First ask him then tell him it is the 1st step to success. Also give him ideas to ask her out.
2007-09-09 18:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ravi Joshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋