My name is Sam, and I was adopted at 2 years old. my birth parents were abusive towards me and from that I guess I have anger problems. My dad (adoptive), Richards H. has raised me since then. He is like my real father, we go shopping together, read, travel, I even laugh just like him! But we do argue and sometimes we come to blows. Like once we got into about something stupid, and I ran away and he spent 3 days looking for me so I feel bad for doing that. he's a teacher and i go to the same one he teaches at and if I get in trouble at school he pops me on the back of my head in front of everyone and that upsets me. So once at home we physically fight. Another time I snuck out with my friends to this drug house ad was doing drugs. He again looked for me and he physically fought two of the dudes at this drug house to get me back. I in return hit him. I know I'm stressing him out and he's slowing starting back to being a alchoholic because of me. I need help, and advice.
2007-09-09 10:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by sam j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think first you need to just sit down and think about where you would be if it weren't for him...probably still being abused to death by your birth parents. you should be so thankful to him. everything he does for you is because he loves you and cares about you and doesnt want you getting into trouble or getting hurt. you should stay away from drugs all together because NOTHING good can come of drugs. and dont ever hit him because he is your father and he deserves your respect, plus hitting him is not going to solve anything, as you have already seen. if you dont like it when he pops you on the back of your head, then tell him nicely that you dont like it and he will listen. also, stop running away, you need to be patient because its probably the most stressful thing for your dad to think about where in the world you could be. if you do all this, you'll find a lot more peace with him and you will be happier. if you need any extra help, just email me. good luck!
2007-09-09 10:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are realizing how much this man has given you. He has risk everything for you, and it is now time for you to grow up. You need to thank him for what he has given you, and how much he means to you. It is time to turn you life towards being responsible. Spend more time with your father and talk with him. You will be able to help each other find the right path. God bless.
2007-09-09 18:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a good start that you are aware of this.
now you can do soemthing about it, realize that he didnt have to adopt u. realize that without him, u could have ended up raised without parents, or people that care abuot you.
realize this, and fix things. you and your adopted parents only live once. make the most of it.... dont be an idiot and do drugs.
2007-09-09 17:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. ownership of a problem= possible recovery! 2. Get help for yourself,3. talk dad into the same!! You seem to be running things, NOW GET IT RITE!!!!!!!!
2007-09-09 17:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY Happy birthday
2007-09-09 18:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by jacqueline s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋